Healthy Surrender

Healthy Surrender

Genesis 31: ⁴³ And Laban answered and said to Jacob, “These daughters are my daughters, and these children are my children, and this flock is my flock; all that you see is mine. But what can I do this day to these my daughters or to their children whom they have borne? ⁴⁴ Now therefore, come, let us make a covenant, you and I, and let it be a witness between you and me.”

 

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Realizing his rage filled quest was futile, Laban spoke to Jacob saying “” what can I do?” He searched for his household idols, but Rachel hid them. He wanted to get his stuff back, but GOD warned him. His only choice was to surrender.

 

My Observations:

• Laban’s greed made him blind to the purpose of having the stuff, namely to feed family.
• Laban lost his family and his stuff because of his greed.
• Laban realized his fight would be against GOD if he harmed Jacob, so he surrendered.

 

It took GOD to intervene for Laban to realize his motive for pursuing Jacob would turn out poorly for him. His rage was because he was about to lose his flocks and the people who supported them. His help was walking out the door and his wealth was diminishing.

 

Laban did what many people would not do. He surrendered. He decided that fighting Jacob’s GOD would cause him more trouble. I am not sure if he placed hope in his idols, and by losing them, he felt the fight was futile. Kind of like a lucky charm. But he did realize GOD has the power to intervene. His surrender was healthy.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think Laban’s decree was detailed and told to Moses by GOD?
• Have you ever realized that you may be fighting GOD?
• Is there a part of you that needs to surrender to GOD, so HE can rebuild it for HIS purpose?