Bribery for Offense

Bribery for Offense

Genesis 34: ¹¹ Then Shechem said to her father and her brothers, “Let me find favor in your eyes, and whatever you say to me I will give. ¹² Ask me ever so much dowry and gift, and I will give according to what you say to me; but give me the young woman as a wife.”

 

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Shechem decided to speak up. He thought it would be a good idea to bribe Jacob and Dinah’s brothers by offering a dowry for his violation.

 

My Observations:

• Shechem was probably used to getting what he wanted because the city was named after him.
• Shechem may have thought money would always be the answer for his problems, even the one’s he caused.
• Shechem had no regard for Dinah, Jacob or her brothers and figured a bribe would smooth over his wrong.

 

Thinking money was the solution, Shechem tried to bribe the family into getting his way. He already took what he wanted without considering the consequences. Being rich and powerful, he may have felt he was above the law. BUT GOD saw what he did.

 

In many ways, we think like Shechem. We recklessly break things in life, hoping money will fix the problem. Shechem seemed arrogant enough to approach the family with such an offer. He was raised in rebellion to GOD, much like the other Canaanites. He seemed to live life like anything goes. Little did he know, GOD saw every action.

 

Challenge

• Why does GOD tell Moses about Shechem’s bribery attempt?
• Have you ever messed up and thought money could buy you out of the problem you made?
• Instead of bribery, will you consider confessing to GOD and allow HIM to correct you so HE can place you back on HIS path?

Missed Opportunities

Missed Opportunities

Genesis 34: 5 And Jacob heard that he had defiled Dinah his daughter. Now his sons were with his livestock in the field; so Jacob held his peace until they came. 6 Then Hamor the father of Shechem went out to Jacob to speak with him. 7 And the sons of Jacob came in from the field when they heard it; and the men were grieved and very angry, because he had done a disgraceful thing in Israel by lying with Jacob’s daughter, a thing which ought not to be done. 8 But Hamor spoke with them, saying, “The soul of my son Shechem longs for your daughter. Please give her to him as a wife. 9 And make marriages with us; give your daughters to us, and take our daughters to yourselves. 10 So you shall dwell with us, and the land shall be before you. Dwell and trade in it, and acquire possessions for yourselves in it.”

 

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Jacob heard that Dinah had been violated and kept silent. Hamor heard that his son violated Jacob’s daughter and he heard the demand that his son gave him, wanting to marry Dinah after violating her. Hamor presented an option to act like a Hivite and accept their ways and receive their daughters and possessions.

 

My Observations:

• Jacob missed the opportunity to respond to the outrageous act against his daughter.
• Hamor missed the opportunity to have his son apologize and pay for his egregious action.
• Shechem missed the opportunity of having a loving relationship with Dinah by taking what he wanted.

 

Trying to downplay the violation outraged the sons of Jacob. Jacob never opened his mouth out of fear of retribution. Jacob’s fear, was noticed by his sons, so they did not do anything right away.

 

GOD had sent Jacob back to this land and now his daughter was hurt and so were his sons. What a mess! BUT GOD saw it all. This terrible act would not go unnoticed. Jacob, Hamor and Shechem represent times when we miss opportunities to stand in the gap for someone who has been wronged, or we try to smooth over a wrong, or we do the wrong. GOD sees.

 

Challenge

• Why does GOD tell Moses about Hamor’s offer?
• Have you ever needed someone to stand in the gap for you?
• Will you stand in the gap for someone or not try to smooth a wrong over, or confess to a wrong today?

Blind Desire

Blind Desire

Genesis 34: Now Dinah the daughter of Leah, whom she had borne to Jacob, went out to see the daughters of the land. ² And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her and lay with her, and violated her. ³ His soul was strongly attracted to Dinah the daughter of Jacob, and he loved the young woman and spoke kindly to the young woman. ⁴ So Shechem spoke to his father Hamor, saying, “Get me this young woman as a wife.”

 

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Dinah was trying to accept the move, so she went to meet the Hivite women Isaac and Rebekah despised. Shechem the son of the ruler Hamor and who the city was named after, saw how beautiful Dinah was and violated her. He loved Dinah and spoke kindly to her. He demanded that Hamor get Dinah as his wife.

 

My Observations:

• Shechem saw what he wanted and took what he wanted.
• Shechem may have been in love with Dinah, but had no consideration for her feelings.
• Shechem tried to sweet talk Dinah into wanting to be with him, but that may not have been working, so he demanded his father to force her to be his wife.

 

When the desire to have something that does not belong to a person is there, bad decisions are made. Shechem wanted something and felt he could take it instead of allowing the relationship to blossom naturally. Shechem was dangerous because he could run and tell people who supported his every move, that he wanted what he wanted and that’s the way it is. The town was named “Shechem!”

 

It isn’t just about power. We want what we want and see things from a “me” perspective like Shechem. His desire would cause a lot of people to be hurt because he took what he wanted without a drop of humility. Another mess happened. GOD saw the mess.

 

Challenge

• Why did GOD tell Moses about what Shechem did to Dinah and how he reacted?
• Have you ever wanted something so badly, that all decisions are made from getting that thing?
• Are you willing to ask GOD to change your desire into HIS desire instead of steering HIM into getting your way?

Outside of the Garden

Outside of the Garden

Genesis 33: ¹⁸ Then Jacob came safely to the city of Shechem, which is in the land of Canaan, when he came from Padan Aram; and he pitched his tent before the city. ¹⁹ And he bought the parcel of land, where he had pitched his tent, from the children of Hamor, Shechem’s father, for one hundred pieces of money. ²⁰ Then he erected an altar there and called it El Elohe Israel.

 

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Jacob wanted to settle down peacefully in the land GOD told him to return to. He paid one hundred pieces of money, or silver to the children of Hamor. Hamor was the founder of Shechem.

 

My Observations:

• GOD allowed humans to own discipline when HE promised that HE would never flood the earth.
• Noah cursed Canaan, causing him to try to become powerful to avoid the curse.
• Many followers of Canaan settled in areas where Jacob bought his land.

 

After the flood, people were looking for pieces of the Garden of Eden. Gold was highly sought after and so was sliver, a lesser metal. Jacob used one hundred pieces of money to procure the land in Canaan. While it looked like Canaan avoided Noah’s curse, this purchase would become pivotal in history.

 

Canaan was told that his descendants would serve the descendants of Shem, who is in the lineage of JESUS. Canaan had no idea what Noah’s curse was about. Those who would cause havoc on humans because of their rebellion against GOD would eventually serve those who believe in CHRIST as their Savior. This prophecy does not seem to mean, CHRIST followers would be slave owners, rather, all evil will fall subject to GOD’s judgment.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think this transaction was important enough for GOD to tell Moses?
• Have you ever thought one place was less cursed than another, even though GOD cursed all of creation?
• Can you remember GOD’s promise to be with you always, even to the end of the age?

 

Wisdom Says Go but Slow

Wisdom Says Go but Slow

Genesis 33: ¹² Then Esau said, “Let us take our journey; let us go, and I will go before you.”

¹³ But Jacob said to him, “My lord knows that the children are weak, and the flocks and herds which are nursing are with me. And if the men should drive them hard one day, all the flock will die. ¹⁴ Please let my lord go on ahead before his servant. I will lead on slowly at a pace which the livestock that go before me, and the children, are able to endure, until I come to my lord in Seir.”

 

¹⁵ And Esau said, “Now let me leave with you some of the people who are with me.”

But he said, “What need is there? Let me find favor in the sight of my lord.” ¹⁶ So Esau returned that day on his way to Seir. ¹⁷ And Jacob journeyed to Succoth, built himself a house, and made booths for his livestock. Therefore the name of the place is called Succoth.

 

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Knowing the land was full of raiders, Esau suggested that he lead Jacob, his people and herds to safety. But Jacob told Esau that the children were weak and the herds and flocks would die if pushed too hard.

 

My Observations:

• Jacob had to go, but he understood what pace the children and herds could handle.
• Esau wanted to provide protection, but Jacob had wrestled the LORD and was sure he would be taken care of.
• Jacob’s faith had grown now that he faced his fear of Esau.

 

Now that the biggest fear was over, facing thieves and robbers was of little concern to Jacob. He had mistreated Esau to “fulfill” GOD’s promise. This messy family situation was known by GOD, yet HE allowed it to play out as it did.

 

GOD healed broken relationships during this meeting. HE also told Jacob to go back to the land and that he would be protected. Jacob had reminded GOD about HIS protection when he was full of fear, as if GOD did not know. He would go and make sure that no harm came to his family or herds because of the possible rushed pace of Esau’s men.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think GOD told Moses about the pace struggle between Esau and Jacob?
• Have you ever been in a situation where it seemed like everything was coming at you too fast, yet something needed to be done?
• Will you continue to go forward, but slow down enough to take care of those around you and the obligations?

I Have Enough

 I Have Enough

Genesis 33: ⁸ Then Esau said, “What do you mean by all this company which I met?”

And he said, “These are to find favor in the sight of my lord.”

⁹ But Esau said, “I have enough, my brother; keep what you have for yourself.”

 

¹⁰ And Jacob said, “No, please, if I have now found favor in your sight, then receive my present from my hand, inasmuch as I have seen your face as though I had seen the face of God, and you were pleased with me. ¹¹ Please, take my blessing that is brought to you, because God has dealt graciously with me, and because I have enough.” So he urged him, and he took it.

 

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Esau asked Jacob about all the stuff that was placed before him. Jacob had set aside herds and breeders so the herds would remain plentiful. It took some doing, but Jacob convinced Esau to take the gift.

 

My Observations:

• Esau had grown to be a mighty leader and had no need for more of what he could get.
• Jacob had grown to be a very influential leader and had not need of what he had plenty of.
• Esau and Jacob had both grown up beyond the stuff they had.

 

Esau wanted to kill Jacob for stealing his birthright and the blessing from Isaac. But he realized his lifestyle may have caused his own problems. Esau tried to change by going to Ishmael and marrying someone from his family instead of marrying another Hittite woman. This was the start of Esau’s growth.

 

Jacob served a greedy uncle who could only think about free labor. For twenty years, Jacob changed little by little. Jacob saw the LORD and wrestled with HIM. Jacob grew stronger in his belief in GOD’s power. He had plenty and gave Esau a gift, probably asking for forgiveness.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think GOD told Moses about the gift exchange between Jacob and Esau?
• Do you feel you are lacking or have plenty?
• Will you ask GOD to show you what real plentifulness looks like?

Humble Reunion

Humble Reunion

Genesis 33: ⁴ But Esau ran to meet him, and embraced him, and fell on his neck and kissed him, and they wept. ⁵ And he lifted his eyes and saw the women and children, and said, “Who are these with you?”

So he said, “The children whom God has graciously given your servant.” ⁶ Then the maidservants came near, they and their children, and bowed down. ⁷ And Leah also came near with her children, and they bowed down. Afterward Joseph and Rachel came near, and they bowed down.

 

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Expecting to be killed, Jacob received a surprise. Esau ran to meet him, embraced him and kissed him. Bilhah cam forth with her children, then Zilpah with her children, then Leah with her children then Joseph and Rachel came. All of them bowed down.

 

My Observations:

• Jacob did not expect the warm greeting he received from Esau.
• Jacob was probably more than relieved that he did not get what he felt he deserved.
• Everyone in Jacob’s family surrendered to Esau in a very humbling way.

 

Both Esau and Jacob had grown up. Esau probably wanted to see Jacob for decades and asked questions about his family. Esau may have realized that his rage was caused by his own actions. Jacob the same.

 

Jacob came to Esau humbly. He referred to himself as “your servant” when speaking to Esau. He did not go into the situation blaming Esau for not respecting his birthright. Esau did not bring up any hurt memories of having his blessing stolen. The reunion was humbling all around. GOD was in the middle of the reunion.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think GOD told Moses about Esau’s reaction to Jacob?
• Have you ever received undeserved favor from GOD?
• Is there an area of your life that needs to be humbled so you can surrender it to GOD?

 

Preparing for the Worst

Preparing for the Worst

Genesis 33: Now Jacob lifted his eyes and looked, and there, Esau was coming, and with him were four hundred men. So he divided the children among Leah, Rachel, and the two maidservants. ² And he put the maidservants and their children in front, Leah and her children behind, and Rachel and Joseph last. ³ Then he crossed over before them and bowed himself to the ground seven times, until he came near to his brother.

 

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Esau was finally on his way. That dreaded time had finally arrived. Jacob put the women and children in front, then he bowed seven times until he reached his brother.

 

My Observations:

• Jacob was preparing for the worst to happen.
• Jacob had to let go of pride and face his fear of his brother.
• Jacob may have thought putting the women and children up front would soften the blow.

 

Full of fear and writhing in pain from wrestling with JESUS, Jacob humbly approached Esau. The dreaded day had come. Jacob probably thought he was going to die. We all can think of the worst, can’t we? Jacob seemed to try everything he could think of, but had to face Esau on Esau’s terms.

 

Jacob finally humbled himself and bowed down to Esau. He saw Esau’s four hundred men and knew he had no chance of escape. He probably thought about all the wrong he did and could not fathom how a positive outcome could happen. BUT GOD was there.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think GOD told Moses about Jacob’s actions?
• Have you ever gotten into a situation that was out of your control?
• Can you rethink the outcome with GOD’s love added so you can change fear to faith today?

Name Change

Name Change

Genesis 32: ²² And he arose that night and took his two wives, his two female servants, and his eleven sons, and crossed over the ford of Jabbok. ²³ He took them, sent them over the brook, and sent over what he had. ²⁴ Then Jacob was left alone; and a Man wrestled with him until the breaking of day. ²⁵ Now when He saw that He did not prevail against him, He touched the socket of his hip; and the socket of Jacob’s hip was out of joint as He wrestled with him. ²⁶ And He said, “Let Me go, for the day breaks.”

But he said, “I will not let You go unless You bless me!”

²⁷ So He said to him, “What is your name?”

He said, “Jacob.”

²⁸ And He said, “Your name shall no longer be called Jacob, but  Israel; for you have struggled with God and with men, and have prevailed.”

²⁹ Then Jacob asked, saying, “Tell me Your name, I pray.”

And He said, “Why is it that you ask about My name?” And He blessed him there.

³⁰ So Jacob called the name of the place Peniel: “For I have seen God face to face, and my life is preserved.” ³¹ Just as he crossed over Penuel the sun rose on him, and he limped on his hip. ³² Therefore to this day the children of Israel do not eat the muscle that shrank, which is on the hip socket, because He touched the socket of Jacob’s hip in the muscle that shrank.

 

 

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After staging everything, Jacob sent his wives over the brook and remained alone. A MAN wrestled with him until daybreak. HE touched Jacob’s hip and shrunk the muscle. HE then renamed Jacob to Israel.

 

My Observations:

• Jacob did not win the wrestling match because he got his leg injured, however, he did win a victory with his struggles with GOD.
• Jacob had finally changed for the LORD during this difficult situation.
• Jacob expected Esau or one of Esau’s men to attack him and he fought for his life.

 

Ready for an attack, Jacob stayed up nervously looking for Esau. When a MAN, I believe was JESUS, came to attack, Jacob was ready. JESUS allowed Jacob to wrestle with HIM all night. HE could have touched Jacob’s hip at the beginning of the wrestling match, BUT HE waited.

 

I believe Jacob needed this struggle as preparation. He needed to hear the words “you have prevailed.” JESUS changed Jacob’s name from deceiver to “Prince with GOD.” Jacob had prevailed over his own deceiving ways and was now ready to lead. His leg would never be the same. He was now totally dependent on GOD and could not run away. GOD made him new.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think GOD told Moses about the wrestling match HE had with Jacob?
• Have you ever struggled with GOD or HIS ways?
• Have you wrestled with GOD yet, so HE can repurpose your life?

Trying to Control

Trying to Control

Genesis 32: ¹³ So he lodged there that same night, and took what came to his hand as a present for Esau his brother: ¹⁴ two hundred female goats and twenty male goats, two hundred ewes and twenty rams, ¹⁵ thirty milk camels with their colts, forty cows and ten bulls, twenty female donkeys and ten foals. ¹⁶ Then he delivered them to the hand of his servants, every drove by itself, and said to his servants, “Pass over before me, and put some distance between successive droves.” ¹⁷ And he commanded the first one, saying, “When Esau my brother meets you and asks you, saying, ‘To whom do you belong, and where are you going? Whose are these in front of you?’ ¹⁸ then you shall say, ‘They are your servant Jacob’s. It is a present sent to my lord Esau; and behold, he also is behind us.’ ” ¹⁹ So he commanded the second, the third, and all who followed the droves, saying, “In this manner you shall speak to Esau when you find him; ²⁰ and also say, ‘Behold, your servant Jacob is behind us.’ ” For he said, “I will appease him with the present that goes before me, and afterward I will see his face; perhaps he will accept me.” ²¹ So the present went on over before him, but he himself lodged that night in the camp.

 

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In a desperate effort to control the situation, Jacob figured he would try to control the situation by making Esau rich. He arranged to give Esau hundreds of animals with the ability to breed more and more.

 

My Observations:

• Jacob tried to prepare for Esau’s arrival by staging a welcome full of gifts.
• Jacob tried to reenter his old country on his own terms.
• Jacob tried to control the outcome by thinking of what Esau would say and do.

 

As if to say “If I were Esau….” Jacob planned for any eventuality. But his plan had a flaw. He did not ask GOD “How should I prepare myself to reenter the land?” His plan included bribery and self-protection, hoping to ease the blow of Esau’s anger. Jacob had not factored in GOD’s protection, so he tried to control the situation.

 

Jacob was used to planning his own protection. He had done this for years. He set his camp at the back of the gifts, thinking Esau would be greedy like Laban and possibly himself. He was looking at the situation through the world’s lenses. BUT GOD had the situation under control.

 

Challenge

• Why does GOD tell Moses about Jacob’s plan?
• Have you ever been faced with a situation and tried to control it without asking GOD?
• Will you place your current situation before GOD and allow the HOLY SPIRIT to guide you, knowing you “are” protected?

Scary Obedience

Scary Obedience

Genesis 32: ⁹ Then Jacob said, “O God of my father Abraham and God of my father Isaac, the Lord who said to me, ‘Return to your country and to your family, and I will deal well with you’: ¹⁰ I am not worthy of the least of all the mercies and of all the truth which You have shown Your servant; for I crossed over this Jordan with my staff, and now I have become two companies. ¹¹ Deliver me, I pray, from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esau; for I fear him, lest he come and attack me and the mother with the children. ¹² For You said, ‘I will surely treat you well, and make your descendants as the sand of the sea, which cannot be numbered for multitude.’ ”

 

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Being obedient to GOD, Jacob returned to the land of Isaac and Rebekah. He fled from Laban with wealth given to him by GOD. But now he was headed back home where he had to face Esau, the one he originally stole things from. He prayed with anguish.

 

My Observations:

• Jacob feared for his life so his prayer was as sincere as he could make it.
• Jacob hit rock bottom and realized that it was him who caused the problems he was in.
• Jacob realized he was not worthy of receiving GOD’s mercy, so he reminded GOD of HIS promise.

 

GOD had already told Jacob that HE was going to bless him and make him the father of many nations. This would require he and his children to remain alive. But Jacob had been slick all his life and could only see the mess he was in.

 

He reminded GOD of the promise. It’s not like GOD needed a reminder or that GOD needed to be informed of the situation. GOD knew. But this was the first time Jacob was obedient in facing problems he created. He was terrified, but obedient. All he could do was pray and rely on GOD’s protection.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think GOD told Moses this prayer?
• Have you ever decided to follow GOD no matter what the consequences are?
• Is it difficult to leave old ways and to turn to the LORD even if it means facing consequences?

Facing Failures

Facing Failures

Genesis 32: ³ Then Jacob sent messengers before him to Esau his brother in the land of Seir, the country of Edom. ⁴ And he commanded them, saying, “Speak thus to my lord Esau, ‘Thus your servant Jacob says: “I have dwelt with Laban and stayed there until now. ⁵ I have oxen, donkeys, flocks, and male and female servants; and I have sent to tell my lord, that I may find favor in your sight.” ’ ”

 

⁶ Then the messengers returned to Jacob, saying, “We came to your brother Esau, and he also is coming to meet you, and four hundred men are with him.” ⁷ So Jacob was greatly afraid and distressed; and he divided the people that were with him, and the flocks and herds and camels, into two companies. ⁸ And he said, “If Esau comes to the one company and attacks it, then the other company which is left will escape.”

 

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GOD told Jacob to return to the land of Isaac and Rebekah. Unfortunately, he had one major problem, namely Esau. Jacob had stolen his birthright and his blessing. He barley escaped with his life when he left. Esau stated he would kill Jacob but Rebekah helped Jacob escape.

 

My Observations:

• GOD sent Jacob back to a place where he had to face his past mistakes.
• Jacob suspected that Esau would still be mad, so he sent messengers ahead to imply he had plenty of gifts to give away.
• Jacob got “greatly afraid and distressed” when he heard Esau was coming to meet him with four hundred men.

 

Being sent back home to a hostile environment may have felt terrible, especially when it was caused by Jacob. BUT GOD had a reason that Jacob was not aware of. GOD was changing Jacob to become a leader who faced situations caused by his own actions. Jacob knew the situation was very serious so he divided the camp in half and prepared them to flee.

 

Jacob was doing what you and I would do. He braced himself for the worst and expected Esau to inflict revenge. Maybe he thought he deserved punishment. Perhaps, deep down he felt he was sorry things happened the way they did. Whatever the case, Jacob faced a difficult situation head on so he could move forward.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think GOD told Moses about Jacob’s plan to return to Esau?
• What mistake have you made that you are afraid to admit?
• Can you face the fear of admitting the mistake you made without fighting the consequences you may face so GOD can move you forward?

Intercepted

Intercepted

Genesis 32: So Jacob went on his way, and the angels of God met him. ² When Jacob saw them, he said, “This is God’s camp.” And he called the name of that place Mahanaim.

 

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After twenty years, Jacob headed back to the land of Isaac and Rebekah. He would also have to face Esau, knowing he did him wrong by stealing his birthright and his blessing. On the way back, GOD sent angels to meet Jacob.

 

My Observations:

• Jacob was the only one who saw the vision of the angels.
• Jacob was not surprised or scared, rather he was calm because he had experienced a vision from GOD on his way from his parents.
• Jacob may have camped in the land filled with angels, to experience GOD in that moment.

 

For the second time, GOD intercepted Jacob on his journey. HE showed Jacob the camp of the angels, possibly to make him stop and think. This pause may have been introduced so Jacob would not rush into his reentry into the land he left on hostile terms.

 

Jacob may have been replaying his deceitfulness in his mind and needed some reassurance that GOD would be with him. Jacob had grown up beyond the slick behavior and now GOD could use him in a different way. HE showed Jacob the angels, which may have ignited his confidence in the LORD.

 

Challenge

• Why does GOD tell Moses about what HE showed Jacob?
• Have you ever needed a little assurance from GOD?
• Are you facing a situation that needs your attention and will you ask GOD to meet you along the journey?

Goodwill Departure

Goodwill Departure

Genesis 31: ⁵¹ Then Laban said to Jacob, “Here is this heap and here is this pillar, which I have placed between you and me. ⁵² This heap is a witness, and this pillar is a witness, that I will not pass beyond this heap to you, and you will not pass beyond this heap and this pillar to me, for harm. ⁵³ The God of Abraham, the God of Nahor, and the God of their father judge between us.” And Jacob swore by the Fear of his father Isaac. ⁵⁴ Then Jacob offered a sacrifice on the mountain, and called his brethren to eat bread. And they ate bread and stayed all night on the mountain. ⁵⁵ And early in the morning Laban arose, and kissed his sons and daughters and blessed them. Then Laban departed and returned to his place.

 

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Laban finalized the covenant by setting boundaries. If either party wanted to do harm to the other, the heap of stones was placed there to remember not to cross into the territory with ill will.

 

My Observations:

• Laban took an oath that he would no longer pursue Jacob and his family to harm them.
• Laban worshipped ancestors, so he mentioned GOD in the context of Nahor and Abraham and Terah.
• Jacob mentioned his father Isaac as he swore to not harm Laban.

 

GOD intervened and the two adversaries departed with goodwill. Jacob would leave with all of Laban’s wealth without having to look over his shoulder, wondering when Laban was going to strike a deadly blow to him.

 

For twenty years, Laban had benefitted from Jacob’s labor. He changed Jacob’s wages ten times, probably to benefit himself. GOD was changing Jacob during the twenty years. Jacob began giving up his deceitful ways, to serve the GOD of his father. Laban and Jacob departed on good terms.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think GOD told Moses about the covenant between Laban and Jacob?
• Have you ever been angry to the point where you could harm someone?
• If you are angry, are you willing to give it over to GOD so HE can give you peace?

Character

Character

Genesis 31: ⁴⁵ So Jacob took a stone and set it up as a pillar. ⁴⁶ Then Jacob said to his brethren, “Gather stones.” And they took stones and made a heap, and they ate there on the heap. ⁴⁷ Laban called it Jegar Sahadutha, but Jacob called it Galeed. ⁴⁸ And Laban said, “This heap is a witness between you and me this day.” Therefore its name was called Galeed, ⁴⁹ also Mizpah, because he said, “May the Lord watch between you and me when we are absent one from another. ⁵⁰ If you afflict my daughters, or if you take other wives besides my daughters, although no man is with us—see, God is witness between you and me!”

 

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After twenty years of a tense relationship with Laban, Jacob and his family were finally about to leave. GOD had taken Laban’s wealth and family from him and warned him not to say anything good or bad about Jacob. Jacob and his group he led, placed stones in a heap and sat on them.

 

My Observations:

• Laban could not bless or curse Jacob, so he said “May the LORD watch between you and me.”
• Laban’s statement was targeted at Jacob’s character, because Laban’s character was not good.
• Laban’s statement was true because GOD is the keeper of character.

 

Character is doing the right actions when no one is looking. This is the usual definition. But I have to add these words, “Knowing that GOD is always watching.”  “May the LORD ‘watch’” is a warning to Jacob and us. When temptation comes, “watch.” When we don’t feel like doing it GOD’s way, “watch.” When trouble comes and we feel like leaving GOD, “watch.”

 

GOD sees everything we do. There is no hiding. Character says “Do it GOD’s way especially when no one can see you and give you a reward for your actions.” Laban had to let go of the wealth and his family he tried to control for decades. He let Jacob know that GOD is watching.

 

Challenge

• Why does GOD give Moses the detail of Jacob’s actions and Laban’s conversation?
• Have you ever been faced with a decision to do right or wrong when no one is looking?
• Is there a part of you that needs to be placed before GOD so HE can help with good character?

Healthy Surrender

Healthy Surrender

Genesis 31: ⁴³ And Laban answered and said to Jacob, “These daughters are my daughters, and these children are my children, and this flock is my flock; all that you see is mine. But what can I do this day to these my daughters or to their children whom they have borne? ⁴⁴ Now therefore, come, let us make a covenant, you and I, and let it be a witness between you and me.”

 

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Realizing his rage filled quest was futile, Laban spoke to Jacob saying “” what can I do?” He searched for his household idols, but Rachel hid them. He wanted to get his stuff back, but GOD warned him. His only choice was to surrender.

 

My Observations:

• Laban’s greed made him blind to the purpose of having the stuff, namely to feed family.
• Laban lost his family and his stuff because of his greed.
• Laban realized his fight would be against GOD if he harmed Jacob, so he surrendered.

 

It took GOD to intervene for Laban to realize his motive for pursuing Jacob would turn out poorly for him. His rage was because he was about to lose his flocks and the people who supported them. His help was walking out the door and his wealth was diminishing.

 

Laban did what many people would not do. He surrendered. He decided that fighting Jacob’s GOD would cause him more trouble. I am not sure if he placed hope in his idols, and by losing them, he felt the fight was futile. Kind of like a lucky charm. But he did realize GOD has the power to intervene. His surrender was healthy.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think Laban’s decree was detailed and told to Moses by GOD?
• Have you ever realized that you may be fighting GOD?
• Is there a part of you that needs to surrender to GOD, so HE can rebuild it for HIS purpose?

Humans Day 1

Humans Day 1

Genesis 1: In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth.

² And the earth was without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters.

³ And God said, Let there be light: and there was light.

⁴ And God saw the light, that it was good: and God divided the light from the darkness.

⁵ And God called the light Day, and the darkness he called Night. And the evening and the morning were the first day.

 

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When I read this passage, I notice “In the beginning GOD.” “In the beginning of what?” I ask. In the beginning of our relationship with GOD. This eternal being revealed how humanity began to HIS servant Moses, who wrote Genesis.

 

My Observations:

• GOD subtly shows HIS power by simply speaking Light into existence.
• “GOD created” shows HIS complexity and authority.
• GOD thought of outer space, the earth and waters and was very pleased to create light specifically for humans.

 

Excitement is what I read when I see this passage. I see GOD excited for humanity and making special things that would bring life. I see that HE was pleased with HIS creation. I can’t help thinking that GOD is saying to HIMSELF “They are really going to like this!” or “They really will need this!” Either way, I can see a loving, caring GOD who is creative and powerful.

 

Challenge

• Why does GOD start HIS dictation to Moses with the creation?
• Can you hear how pleased GOD was to make something for humans that HE did not need for HIMSELF?
• How can you mimic GOD, by using creativity and being pleased with HIS power and HIS provision of light today?

Confronted

Confronted

Genesis 31: ³⁶ Then Jacob was angry and rebuked Laban, and Jacob answered and said to Laban: “What is my trespass? What is my sin, that you have so hotly pursued me? ³⁷ Although you have searched all my things, what part of your household things have you found? Set it here before my brethren and your brethren, that they may judge between us both! ³⁸ These twenty years I have been with you; your ewes and your female goats have not miscarried their young, and I have not eaten the rams of your flock. ³⁹ That which was torn by beasts I did not bring to you; I bore the loss of it. You required it from my hand, whether stolen by day or stolen by night. ⁴⁰ There I was! In the day the drought consumed me, and the frost by night, and my sleep departed from my eyes. ⁴¹ Thus I have been in your house twenty years; I served you fourteen years for your two daughters, and six years for your flock, and you have changed my wages ten times. ⁴² Unless the God of my father, the God of Abraham and the Fear of Isaac, had been with me, surely now you would have sent me away empty-handed. God has seen my affliction and the labor of my hands, and rebuked you last night.”

 

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Laban looked for the household gods stolen by Rachel, but did not find them because she sat on them on her camel. Jacob took the opportunity to confront Laban for twenty years of mistreatment.

 

My Observations:

• Laban may not have been as interested in Leah’s wellbeing, rather with free experienced labor.
• Laban made Jacob work seven years for Leah, knowing Jacob wanted Rachel, then he made him work another seven years.
• Laban changed Jacob’s wages to benefit himself and to steal from Jacob.

 

Two wrongs don’t make a right and three wrongs makes a mess. Rachel stole the household gods, which was wrong. Jacob wanted to skip tradition by marrying Rachel, which was wrong. Laban wanted free labor, which was wrong. BUT GOD worked through this messy situation.

 

GOD knew the promise o salvation would come through a deceitful lineage. Laban convinced Leah to deceive Jacob into marrying her. She could have refused. Jacob was being transformed from trying to get his way. His work was hard and he probably realized he needed to make a change. Meanwhile, Laban was demanding free work with no benefits. GOD saw it all and protected Jacob, father of many nations.

 

Challenge

• Why does GOD explain in detail to Moses how Jacob was deceived over wages?
• Has an employer ever been deceitful to you?
• Do you know that GOD sees the people who have been deceitful to you and will pay you back in full?

Trust Level

Trust Level

Genesis 31: ³³ And Laban went into Jacob’s tent, into Leah’s tent, and into the two maids’ tents, but he did not find them. Then he went out of Leah’s tent and entered Rachel’s tent. ³⁴ Now Rachel had taken the household idols, put them in the camel’s saddle, and sat on them. And Laban^] searched all about the tent but did not find them. ³⁵ And she said to her father, “Let it not displease my lord that I cannot rise before you, for the manner of women is with me.” And he searched but did not find the household idols.

 

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Jacob told Laban that he could kill the one who stole his household idols. Laban felt this was important, because he worshiped his ancestors instead of worshipping GOD.

 

My Observations:

• Laban trusted Jacob the least, so he searched his tent first.
• Laban may have felt Leah was influenced by Jacob because she had so many children by him.
• Laban trusted Rachel the most, probably because Jacob trusted her.

 

During the search, Laban came up empty. Rachel, whom he trusted the most, had stolen the idols and hid them on her camel’s saddle. She then lied to him about not getting off of the camel. Rachel believed in using mandrakes for fertility, idols for wishes and human ownership to acquire her children.

 

BUT GOD remembered Rachel. Earlier, HE listened to her desire to have children and enabled her to become pregnant with Joseph. GOD was with Rachel, even when her actions were insecure. GOD protected Jacob, Leah, the maids and Rachel.

 

My Observations:

• Why does GOD tell Moses about Laban’s search?
• Have you ever done something that you felt would cause GOD not to trust you?
• Are you willing to confess your sins to GOD so HE can entrust you with HIS precious plan?

Because I was Afraid

Because I was Afraid

Genesis 31: ²⁶ And Laban said to Jacob: “What have you done, that you have stolen away unknown to me, and carried away my daughters like captives taken with the sword? ²⁷ Why did you flee away secretly, and steal away from me, and not tell me; for I might have sent you away with joy and songs, with timbrel and harp? ²⁸ And you did not allow me to kiss my sons and my daughters. Now you have done foolishly in so doing. ²⁹ It is in my power to do you harm, but the God of your father spoke to me last night, saying, ‘Be careful that you speak to Jacob neither good nor bad.’ ³⁰ And now you have surely gone because you greatly long for your father’s house, but why did you steal my gods?”

 

³¹ Then Jacob answered and said to Laban, “Because I was afraid, for I said, ‘Perhaps you would take your daughters from me by force.’ ³² With whomever you find your gods, do not let him live. In the presence of our brethren, identify what I have of yours and take it with you.” For Jacob did not know that Rachel had stolen them.

 

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After GOD spoke to Jacob, telling him to leave and go back to Isaac and Rebekah’s land, Jacob “stole away”, leaving Laban. Jacob had great wealth because GOD orchestrated the complex deal Laban tried to manipulate. Laban promised to give Jacob all the animals that had spots, then streaks, then blemishes. But each change, GOD would allow the animals to breed in what was said. Laban confronted Jacob about his gods.

 

My Observations:

• Jacob finally told the truth about being afraid.
• Jacob could not deceive his way out of the situation, so he finally had to tell the truth.
• Jacob did not know about Rachel stealing the household gods, so he allowed Laban the right to kill anyone who had them.

 

GOD spoke to Laban, protecting Jacob from harm. Laban was probably going to kill Jacob and try to justify his action. BUT GOD intervened. Laban, knowing what happened to Sodom, was afraid to kill Jacob or take his stuff.

 

Jacob, on the other hand, finally started to tell the truth. “Because I was afraid” was the best answer he could give for leaving without telling Laban. This is a great lesson for you and me. He admitted to being afraid without accusing Laban, at least not yet. He was not shrewd, but honest.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think GOD told Moses about the conversation between Jacob and Laban?
• Have you ever been afraid of something, causing you to finally tell the truth?
• Is GOD putting you in a situation where you finally have to tell the truth?

 

Hot Pursuit

Hot Pursuit

Genesis 31: ²² And Laban was told on the third day that Jacob had fled. ²³ Then he took his brethren with him and pursued him for seven days’ journey, and he overtook him in the mountains of Gilead. ²⁴ But God had come to Laban the Syrian in a dream by night, and said to him, “Be careful that you speak to Jacob neither good nor bad.”

 

²⁵ So Laban overtook Jacob. Now Jacob had pitched his tent in the mountains, and Laban with his brethren pitched in the mountains of Gilead.

 

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Laban lived in Haran. This was Sarah’s home where Abraham met and married her. Laban was the son of Nahor and Milkah. He heard stories about GOD destroying Sodom. When he was told about Jacob fleeing from him, he realized it would take days to catch him. But he was met by GOD.

 

My Observations:

• Laban was furious and probably wanted to kill Jacob.
• GOD warned Laban not to speak good or bad about Jacob.
• Laban was probably cautious about his approach with Jacob.

 

It took a week for Laban and his crew to catch Jacob in the mountains of Gilead. He set up camp near Jacob, heeding GOD’s warning. He knew that if he were to bring any harm to Jacob, he would face GOD’s wrath.

 

Laban had to calm down enough to be able to talk versus act. His first inclination was probably to kill everyone and take back all his stuff. But he realized that GOD had a different plan. He may not have ever heard from GOD directly. His encounter would be memorable.

 

Challenge

• Why does GOD give details to Moses about Laban’s pursuit?
• Have you ever gotten angry and started to act before thinking?
• In times of anger, are you willing to slow down before acting or saying anything so GOD can diffuse the situation>?