Showing posts with label Tearing people down. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Tearing people down. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 2, 2022

Done for You

Done for You

2 Corinthians 13: Put yourselves to the test and judge yourselves, to find out whether you are living in faith. Surely you know that Christ Jesus is in you?—unless you have completely failed. I trust you will know that we are not failures. We pray to God that you will do no wrong—not in order to show that we are a success, but so that you may do what is right, even though we may seem to be failures. For we cannot do a thing against the truth, but only for it. We are glad when we are weak but you are strong. And so we also pray that you will become perfect. 10 That is why I write this while I am away from you; it is so that when I arrive I will not have to deal harshly with you in using the authority that the Lord has given me—authority to build you up, not to tear you down.

 

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“Here, take a pair of shoes” a friend said to me once. “Do you want a ride?” another friend said to me on another occasion. “You can do anything you put your mind to” were the words of inspiration from a mentor. All were blessings to me.

 

  • I had nothing to give back to those who gave to me.
  • I was in need and was not looking for a blessing, yet I received one.
  • I was built up on a rare occasion while others tried to tear me down.

 

Paul is about to conclude his letter. He had addressed some difficult behaviors that were not of CHRIST. He let everyone know that each person must have their own relationship with CHRIST. The actions Paul did were not to get credit, but that each recipient would walk in CHRIST’s perfection.

 

My Observations

  • JESUS is inside me and I am inside of HIM.
  • I am prayed for by many and GOD sees all of those prayers.
  • GOD has given me the authority to build you  up, not to tear you down.

 

Frustration yields words that tear people down. I mean, name calling, sarcastic words, murmurs and negative conversations all find their way on our tongues. BUT GOD despises every negative word spoken. What is the remedy? Build people up.

 

But what if “that” person has done me wrong? Build “that” person up. Placing “that” person up higher so GOD will see him or her places HIS vengeance or blessing on them. I strongly believe that what I wish would happen to “that” person will happen to me, so I better wish “that” person will receive huge blessings in spite of their sin. I am glad GOD gives me HIS authority.

 

Challenge

  • What “success” is the writer speaking of?
  • What does upholding the “truth” mean?
  • Will you accept the authority to build people up, not to tear people down so GOD may do with him or her has HE pleases?

Thursday, August 22, 2019

Seeking by Lurking


Seeking by Lurking
John 7: 5And everyone went to his own house.

John 8: But Jesus went to the Mount of Olives.

Now early in the morning He came again into the temple, and all the people came to Him; and He sat down and taught them. Then the scribes and Pharisees brought to Him a woman caught in adultery. And when they had set her in the midst, they said to Him, “Teacher, this woman was caught in adultery, in the very act.

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Listening intently to every word, I wanted to catch this person in a lie, “I know they are guilty” I said to myself as I replayed events in my mind over and over. Something seemed strange this particular day when I saw the person. “This is the day I catch them in their lie” I thought. The person confessed their strange behavior on a very serious illness.

  • There were times when I looked for something to be wrong with people.
  • There were times when I watched people intently to see if they would fail.
  • There were times when I sentenced people as guilty, then I watched them prove their guilt to me.


After the crowd left, JESUS went to the Mount of Olives, usually to pray. When HE returned HE was met by the church leaders who caught a woman in the act of adultery. They must have lurked behind her as she met with her lover or was the male someone they knew? Whatever the case, they did not accuse him.

Bringing her to JESUS, they demanded a biblical answer to trip HIM up. They sought failure for her and JESUS, hoping guilt would show their superiority.

  • GOD wants me to seek people with grace, not guilt.
  • GOD wants me to desire restoration for people, not reasons to leave them.
  • GOD wants me to follow people to serve them, not harm them.


Motive for proving someone’s guilt is usually a problem with GOD. As I have said many times, “We are all in the mud, throwing mud at each other, saying ‘you have mud on your face’.” Pronouncing someone guilty, then watching them prove their guilt may be the very thing that makes me “guilty” before GOD.

HE wants me to admit my guilt to restore guilty people. Instead of lurking for superiority, HE wants me seeking people to bring back to HIM, gently. I am glad people were sent to bring me to HIM.

  • Are you accusing others?
  • Do you want to feel good about yourself by making someone else look guilty?
  • Will you start seeking guilty people to gently bring them back to JESUS to save them and you today?