Showing posts with label Wanting to be seen. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Wanting to be seen. Show all posts

Thursday, August 11, 2022

Being Seen

 

Being Seen

Philippians 4: 21 Greetings to each one of God's people who belong to Christ Jesus. The believers here with me send you their greetings. 22 All God's people here send greetings, especially those who belong to the Emperor's palace.

 

23 May the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with you all.

 

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Walking into the convention center, I saw thousands of smiling faces. It was the first day of the convention and I did not know anyone. I wandered the convention floor without destination. When they held a greeting session, I felt better. I was introduced to people.

 

  • I felt lonely in a huge crowd.
  • I felt unseen even though I was in the middle of thousands.
  • I felt better when I was greeted.

 

Paul concludes his letter with greetings from him and many believers. The believers at Philippi had gone through much and some felt dejected, lonely and were on the brink of giving up. Paul mentions twice that the people send their greetings as if to say, “We see you!”

 

My Observations

  • GOD wants me to see the unseen people like the homeless person tucked away in the corner.
  • GOD wants me to understand that people need prayer.
  • GOD wants me to greet people, introducing them to others so I can meet people who may be lonely as I was at the convention.

 

Being seen is not easy. I mean, in these days of self-promotion, the quiet and misunderstood can be pushed out. BUT GOD sees everyone and lives in those who believe in HIS SON. The HOLY SPIRIT guides me to greet people and bring them into HIS family.

 

Greeting people says “I see you and you are welcome here!” I am glad GOD send people to greet and welcome others.

 

Challenge

  • Who is the audience of the writer?
  • Have you ever felt lonely or insecure?
  • Will you join a group of believers in CHRIST and greet people differently so he or she can be seen today?

Wednesday, January 12, 2022

Seeking Approval

Seeking Approval

2 Corinthians 10: 15 So we do not boast about the work that others have done beyond the limits God set for us. Instead, we hope that your faith may grow and that we may be able to do a much greater work among you, always within the limits that God has set. 16 Then we can preach the Good News in other countries beyond you and shall not have to boast about work already done in someone else's field.

 

17 But as the scripture says, “Whoever wants to boast must boast about what the Lord has done.” 18 For it is when the Lord thinks well of us that we are really approved, and not when we think well of ourselves.

 

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“This is really messed up” I thought to myself. I turned in my work and explained that I really did not understand the assignment very well. To my surprise I did better on the assignment than I thought. It turned out that other people did not understand the assignment either.

 

  • I did not like to be evaluated.
  • I did not like being told to correct my work.
  • I did not like seeking approval on things I could not understand or control.

 

Paul concludes explaining his personal appeal to the people to follow JESUS. He tells everyone to “boast about what the LORD has done” to avoid pointing at their own accomplishments. He explains that the LORD’s approval is the only true approval.

 

My Observations

  • Some of the things I think I do for the LORD I really do for the approval of humans.
  • Some of the things I think I do for humans were really done for the LORD.
  • Only GOD knows what I have done in sincerity for HIM and HE will reward me based on HIS measure.

 

Is donating a huge sum of money greater than giving a thirsty person a cup of water? I don’t know. BUT GOD says “And if you give even a cup of cold water to one of the least of MY followers, you will surely be rewarded.” Motive and sincerity will always be questioned by another human. BUT GOD is the only one who has the rewards.

 

HE sees when I fight my sin and surrender “my” way to do something HE wants me to do to grow HIS kingdom. Boasting about what JESUS did for me seems to be the only way of gaining the approval GOD, I gladly give up pointing to me so others’ “faith may grow” in the LORD.

 

Challenge

  • What approval do you think the writer was seeking in order to keep preaching the Good News in other countries?
  • Have you ever felt like you were seeking approval from humans who have already wrongfully judged you?
  • Will you grow your faith in GOD and know HE has already approved you to boast about JESUS today?

Wednesday, June 5, 2019

It’s Getting Done


John 3: 22 After this, Jesus and his disciples went out into the Judean countryside, where he spent some time with them, and baptised. 23 Now John also was baptising at Aenon near Salim, because there was plenty of water, and people were coming and being baptised. 24 (This was before John was put in prison.) 25 An argument developed between some of John’s disciples and a certain Jew over the matter of ceremonial washing. 26 They came to John and said to him, ‘Rabbi, that man who was with you on the other side of the Jordan – the one you testified about – look, he is baptising, and everyone is going to him.’

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Working long hours, I felt exhausted but satisfied. I mean I had everything under control, or so I thought. “Why don’t you let that person do this part of the project now?” my boss said directedly. When the person did their work, I felt a sense of jealousy. They were getting accolades I was used to getting.

  • I felt jealous.
  • I felt I was losing accolades.
  • I felt I was slipping in value.


JESUS and HIS disciples were baptizing people and John “The Baptist’s” disciples questioned why these guys were doing this. They noticed their crowd was getting smaller and smaller and sensed something was wrong, or so they thought.

  • GOD wants me to be part of a team who bring people to HIM.
  • GOD wants me to see how HE is working through others.
  • GOD wants me to praise HIM daily for what HE is doing, especially when someone else is doing it.


As long as it is getting done, who am I to argue. If someone else is serving GOD by serving others, I do not need a pat on the back or an accolade for what I am doing. GOD sees what I am doing as part of HIS plan for all of humanity. HE knows the pie is big. In other words, HE knows the harvest is plenty and the laborers are few. I am glad I am part of GOD’s big picture.

  • Are you jealous of someone’s abilities?
  • Do you talk bad about someone so you can get praise?
  • Will you stop trying to point at yourself and allow GOD to work through others and through you?

Tuesday, June 5, 2018

People Checklist


Luke 3: Then he said to the multitudes that came out to be baptized by him, “Brood of vipers! Who warned you to flee from the wrath to come? Therefore bear fruits worthy of repentance, and do not begin to say to yourselves, ‘We have Abraham as our father.’ For I say to you that God is able to raise up children to Abraham from these stones. And even now the ax is laid to the root of the trees. Therefore every tree which does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.”

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Looking at my calendar I realized I was triple booked with events. I made an appearance at each gathering spending only minutes with the host. I made sure they knew I was there and had the best intentions, but I was busy. In later years, I was triple booked again, only this time it was for funerals.

  • There were times when I went to a lot of events.
  • There were times when I spent more time going to the events than being at the event.
  • There were times when I wanted to be seen at the event than actually “being” at the event.


John was filled with the HOLY SPIRIT and discerned the hearts of those who came out to be baptized. Some people may have come there because everyone else was there or to be seen by the ”right” people. He tried to change their perspective because some of the crowd may have felt they deserved to be there because their families were long time church goers.

  • GOD wants me to serve others with my heart filled with HIS love.
  • GOD wants me to not to think more highly of myself because I attend church.
  • GOD wants me to bear fruit worthy of repentance rather than “looking good” on the outside and being rotten on the inside.


Having people on a checklist is not always the best. I do understand that I cannot save everyone and if I do not set boundaries, I could burn myself out. BUT GOD does want me to spend quality time with people so I can bear HIS fruit.

Only GOD’s fruit is good. HE looks at my heart and can tell when I am bearing fruit for myself rather than for HIM. HE wants me to point to HIM by sitting and crying and laughing and praying with people all while pointing to HIS amazing grace for me. HE want me to be there for people rather than check listing my appearance.

  • Are you treating GOD as a checklist item?
  • Do you sympathize with people?
  • Can you spend some quality time with those who need you today?