Showing posts with label Rape. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Rape. Show all posts

Friday, August 29, 2025

Bribery for Offense

Bribery for Offense

Genesis 34: 11 Then Shechem said to her father and her brothers, “Let me find favor in your eyes, and whatever you say to me I will give. 12 Ask me ever so much dowry and gift, and I will give according to what you say to me; but give me the young woman as a wife.”

 

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Shechem decided to speak up. He thought it would be a good idea to bribe Jacob and Dinah’s brothers by offering a dowry for his violation.

 

My Observations:

  • Shechem was probably used to getting what he wanted because the city was named after him.
  • Shechem may have thought money would always be the answer for his problems, even the one’s he caused.
  • Shechem had no regard for Dinah, Jacob or her brothers and figured a bribe would smooth over his wrong.

 

Thinking money was the solution, Shechem tried to bribe the family into getting his way. He already took what he wanted without considering the consequences. Being rich and powerful, he may have felt he was above the law. BUT GOD saw what he did.

 

In many ways, we think like Shechem. We recklessly break things in life, hoping money will fix the problem. Shechem seemed arrogant enough to approach the family with such an offer. He was raised in rebellion to GOD, much like the other Canaanites. He seemed to live life like anything goes. Little did he know, GOD saw every action.

 

Challenge

  • Why does GOD tell Moses about Shechem’s bribery attempt?
  • Have you ever messed up and thought money could buy you out of the problem you made?
  • Instead of bribery, will you consider confessing to GOD and allow HIM to correct you so HE can place you back on HIS path?

Friday, December 20, 2024

What Happened?

What Happened?

Genesis 6: Now it came to pass, when men began to multiply on the face of the earth, and daughters were born to them, that the sons of God saw the daughters of men, that they were beautiful; and they took wives for themselves of all whom they chose.

 

And the Lord said, “My Spirit shall not strive with man forever, for he is indeed flesh; yet his days shall be one hundred and twenty years.” There were giants on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of men and they bore children to them. Those were the mighty men who were of old, men of renown.

 

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At this point there were a lot of humans on the earth. Two distinct paths were identified, those who called out to the LORD and those who did not. All humans were born with a sin nature, so sin was now a preference. When Satan was thrown out of heaven, I believe he tried to ruin humans to avoid a sentence written on a holy scroll that only a perfect human could open.

 

When he was thrown out, he had convinced a third of the angels that he should be GOD. These angels were also thrown out and on earth they raped human women versus taking a vow before GOD to be a husband.

 

My Observations:

  • Woman was made extremely special because only through this being can creation of life happen.
  • Even the angels desired women for their own.
  • Demons are very hard to explain, but their desires are not GOD’s desires.

 

Talk about a rabbit hole! Many questions can arise about angels, demons and GOD from this set of verses. BUT GOD was explaining “what happened” versus why. Evil beings raped women and giants were born. The end. This is what GOD revealed.

 

Challenge

  • In reference to JESUS, why does GOD tell Moses about demons raping women?
  • Have you ever served an angel without knowing it?
  • Will you be hospitable to anyone, male or female, not knowing if you are entertaining a being sent by GOD?

Tuesday, January 23, 2018

Protected Responses

Mark 9: 42 “But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to stumble, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were thrown into the sea. 43 If your hand causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter into life maimed, rather than having two hands, to go to hell, into the fire that shall never be quenched— 44 where

‘Their worm does not die
And the fire is not quenched.’

45 And if your foot causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life lame, rather than having two feet, to be cast into hell, into the fire that shall never be quenched— 46 where

‘Their worm does not die,
And the fire is not quenched.’

47 And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye, rather than having two eyes, to be cast into hell fire— 48 where

‘Their worm does not die
And the fire is not quenched.’

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As a sign of bravery and strength I was instructed to punch the cement wall harder than the guy next to me. Judging was totally subjective as far as who “won.” Being the frail guy I was I punched the wall with a soft touch. “I’m not breaking my hand!” I said to myself.

  • Many times I preserved myself.
  • Many times I protected myself from harm.
  • Many times I made sure I was safe.


JESUS shocks the disciples with a strict message of warning. HE warns them against causing others to fall into sin. The warning is extreme saying it would be better to maim yourself than to cause someone to sin because of lack of control.

  • GOD wants me to control myself enough to keep others from falling into my sin.
  • GOD wants me to refrain from hurting people and turn to helping them instead.
  • GOD wants me to put a leash on my carnal urges long enough to encourage and grow people.


JESUS knew I would try to protect myself when HE said these statements. HE wanted to get down to the core of my wretched, rotten sin by saying it would be better to lose a hand or a foot or an eye than to drag others into my sinful world. But what does HE want me to do? HE wants me to pray for others, encouraging them to follow HIM.

  • Are you trying to drag people into your sin?
  • Can you stop for a moment and figure out a way to encourage that person?
  • Will you turn from your sin today so you can help others do the same?


Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Should I get involved?



Genesis 34:When Jacob heard that his daughter Dinah had been defiled, his sons were in the fields with his livestock; so he did nothing about it until they came home.

Then Shechem’s father Hamor went out to talk with Jacob. Meanwhile, Jacob’s sons had come in from the fields as soon as they heard what had happened. They were shocked and furious, because Shechem had done an outrageous thing in Israel by sleeping with Jacob’s daughter—a thing that should not be done.

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Flight delay number two got me home extremely late.  I just wanted to go to bed but, alas, I had to drive home. As I reached my neighborhood, I noticed a car with four people sitting in it parked near my block. It was a strange place to be parked but I could definitely see a vantage point on houses nearby.

“Should I call the police?” I thought to myself. Then another thought popped in my head “If I call the police then they will come to my house which is in sight of these guys. Maybe I shouldn’t. And besides, I’m tired!”
  • Fear of retribution makes me not get involved.
  • Selfishness makes me steer clear of someone else’s situation.
  • Calculating how much time will be spent helping someone else makes me say no way, my time is too precious.

It is so easy for me to overlook what is wrong when I’m selfish. I mean I can bury my head in my work and overlook what is harmful to someone else. I can say “not my problem” but I will scream for help if it were. What should I do?

  • GOD wants me involved with other people to help them in difficult situations.
  • GOD wants me to stand up to something that is wrong or harmful.
  • GOD wants me engaged with my neighbors to cry with them, protect them and serve them.


Yes it takes more energy, but GOD wants me to help others especially when I don’t feel like it. By the way, I did call the police and they did catch the guys.

  • Are you afraid of getting involved?
  • Have you practiced overlooking wrongs for so long that you won’t confront them?
  • Are you the one in the wrong?
  • Can you get involved in a loving way, removing your opinion and giving the gift of GOD?