Showing posts with label Forgiveness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Forgiveness. Show all posts

Thursday, July 15, 2021

Remove Barriers

Remove Barriers

1 Corinthians 8: Be careful, however, not to let your freedom of action make those who are weak in the faith fall into sin. 10 Suppose a person whose conscience is weak in this matter sees you, who have so-called “knowledge,” eating in the temple of an idol; will not this encourage him to eat food offered to idols? 11 And so this weak person, your brother for whom Christ died, will perish because of your “knowledge”! 12 And in this way you will be sinning against Christ by sinning against other Christians and wounding their weak conscience. 13 So then, if food makes a believer sin, I will never eat meat again, so as not to make a believer fall into sin.

 

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“Put on your best” were the words of someone, I think. We were all dressed in suits and dresses, giving our “best” every Sunday at church. The SPIRIT of the LORD moved me to go out into the neighborhood and invite people. “No thanks, I don’t have anything to wear” was the barrier presented to me.

 

  • There have been many things I did that were a barrier to someone.
  • There have been many things I did that may have caused someone to stumble.
  • There have been many things I did that seemed harmless to me, but were harmful to others.

 

“Be careful” was Paul’s warning. He was addressing a question about food offered to idols. He replied with a statement that idols have no power. But he warns everyone who believes to be careful not to make a believer fall into sin. If there is a person who is “weaker in faith”, be careful with liberties.

 

  • GOD wants me to use discernment around people who are just starting to know CHRIST.
  • GOD wants me to drop my assumptions that everyone is at the same maturity level.
  • GOD wants me to keep my liberties to myself if they will cause a person to fall into sin.

 

“It’s all good” is not all good to everyone. I mean, when I am speaking to someone, my relaxed attitude towards something may cause a person to doubt a truth I may have spoken about JESUS. This truth may cause that person to sin. Now I have caused a sin against CHRIST.

 

GOD wants me to be willing to make adjustments to the way I do things so I will be inviting rather than offensive. This only goes so far. The message of JESUS is quite offensive and HE does not want me to stop speaking about HIM. But I can stop wearing suits, eating certain things and going to buildings on certain days “temporarily” while I am with a person who I may offend. I am glad GOD’s grace is sufficient.

 

  • Are you being offensive and are unaware?
  • Do you follow customs versus being led by the SPIRIT?
  • Will you examine your habits and see if the good ones have become a barrier to GOD and ask HIM to remove it immediately today?

Friday, April 24, 2020

Concerned about the Circumstance


Acts 7: 54 When they heard these things they were cut to the heart, and they gnashed at him with their teeth. 55 But he, being full of the Holy Spirit, gazed into heaven and saw the glory of God, and Jesus standing at the right hand of God, 56 and said, “Look! I see the heavens opened and the Son of Man standing at the right hand of God!”

57 Then they cried out with a loud voice, stopped their ears, and ran at him with one accord; 58 and they cast him out of the city and stoned him. And the witnesses laid down their clothes at the feet of a young man named Saul. 59 And they stoned Stephen as he was calling on God and saying, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.” 60 Then he knelt down and cried out with a loud voice, “Lord, do not charge them with this sin.” And when he had said this, he fell asleep.

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With only one block to go, I felt relief as I neared my neighborhood. I had taken an exploratory route and wound up in a neighborhood known for its thugs. Driving through the intersection, someone hit my car. When I got out, the person, knowing they were I the wrong, wanted to fight. Neighbors who knew me came out to see if everything was alright.

  • There have been times when people helped me when I was in need.
  • There have been times when people protected me when I was threatened.
  • There have been times when people showed their concern over my safety.


Stephen was not scared of his safety when he accused the church leaders, who murdered JESUS, of rejecting the HOLY SPIRIT. When he looked up, he saw JESUS standing next to GOD rather than sitting.

JESUS was concerned about the situation and showed Stephen HIS glory. HE did not stop the evil actions of HIS murderers towards Stephen. More blood was added to their hands.

  • GOD wants me to understand there is a spiritual battle.
  • GOD wants me to know HE has already won the battle.
  • GOD wants me to trust that HE is concerned with every situation I may face, even when it seems like evil is winning.


JESUS won. This is a past tense statement. HE has overcome the world. But we are still in the world waiting for the victory to be revealed someday. Our life on earth is short compared to eternity.

GOD knows there will be some who hate me just because I love HIM. HE also knows there will be some who purposefully try to harm me because of HIM. HE fills me with HIS SPIRIT because HE is concerned about me. I am grateful to serve the living GOD who cares about me.

  • Are you facing a difficult situation that someone else caused?
  • Is your faith being tested because of your trust in JESUS?
  • Will you stand firm and pray for your enemies that they may also be saved even though they are persecuting you?


Thursday, June 8, 2017

Keeping Track

Matthew 18: 21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”

22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.

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One time I was robbed. I remember the guy’s face as if it were yesterday. He stole fifty cents, a calculator and my bus card! This guy should have been thrown in jail for the rest of his life!

  • It is hard to forgive when I keep count.
  • It is hard to forgive when I quantify the offense with my emotions.
  • It is hard to forgive when I feel threatened or experience extreme loss or I am hurt.


Peter threw out the most extreme number he could think of, “seven.” I thought about it, I would have to get robbed by this guy six more times! JESUS says, “No, Seventy-seven times” meaning I would have to get robbed by this guy seventy-six more times before I stopped forgiving him. I could see myself saying “Is this number forty two or forty three?” as I kept track.

  • JESUS wants me to have the mindset of forgiveness even when I do not forget.
  • JESUS wants me to release problems by forgiving versus holding onto negative thoughts.
  • JESUS wants me to have abundant life and forgiveness is part of it.


Keeping track of the number is the main problem. GOD desires that I carry a mindset of forgiveness wherever I go. When “that” person cuts me off in traffic, my mindset says it is impossible for them to do this seventy-six more times before I reach my destination. Instead, GOD wants me to reset the clock to zero and say, “This was not an offense to me, but to GOD.”

No I am not saying I am GOD. I am saying the offender will have to deal with their offenses “to” GOD just like I will have to do one day. The act of forgiveness means I pray for the both of us in the offensive situation.

  • Have you been sinned against?
  • How many times did the person offend you?
  • Can you stop replaying their offense in your mind and start healing by forgiving them?


Monday, May 8, 2017

Strange Teaching


Matthew 16: When they went across the lake, the disciples forgot to take bread. “Be careful,” Jesus said to them. “Be on your guard against the yeast of the Pharisees and Sadducees.”

They discussed this among themselves and said, “It is because we didn’t bring any bread.”

Aware of their discussion, Jesus asked, “You of little faith, why are you talking among yourselves about having no bread? Do you still not understand? Don’t you remember the five loaves for the five thousand, and how many basketfuls you gathered? 10 Or the seven loaves for the four thousand, and how many basketfuls you gathered? 11 How is it you don’t understand that I was not talking to you about bread? But be on your guard against the yeast of the Pharisees and Sadducees.” 12 Then they understood that he was not telling them to guard against the yeast used in bread, but against the teaching of the Pharisees and Sadducees.

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“Maybe people should use a pink envelope” I thought to myself as I dreamt of ways to distinguish the collection for the parking lot. It would require teaching as the collection was already complicated. But this was necessary!

  • There were times I thought of rules for participating in church.
  • There were times I dreamt of ways to “easily” follow the rules.
  • There were times I believed that more rules meant more order.


When I look back on my church tenure I notice a soulless march towards rules and regulations. I mean, I “had” to be in church and I “had” to give and I “had” to sing and I “had” to pray.  There could be no deviations from the schedule, structure, dress or tone in order to fit in. BUT GOD wants me to act different.

  • GOD wants me to follow HIS teachings, not the soulless teachings of man.
  • GOD wants me to test every word that is being said to hear if GOD is in the words rather than man.
  • GOD wants me to teach from HIS word, not from sinful, efficient ideas.


Having needs as a church is not the sin, but sometimes I can focus a little too much on the church building or group and not enough on GOD and HIS flock. I find myself name dropping the church name rather than JESUS’ name. GOD wants me to be part of the church of JESUS which could include every local gathering if they believe.

  • Are you proud of your church?
  • Do you name drop your church name more than JESUS’ name?
  • Can you stop coming up with more church rules and teach GOD’s words of love?


Monday, March 20, 2017

Amazing Hate

Matthew 12: 22 Then they brought him a demon-possessed man who was blind and mute, and Jesus healed him, so that he could both talk and see. 23 All the people were astonished and said, “Could this be the Son of David?”

24 But when the Pharisees heard this, they said, “It is only by Beelzebul, the prince of demons, that this fellow drives out demons.”

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Hatred is bewildering and amazing. I mean when I don’t like a person, there is not much “right” they can do.
  • Hatred blinds me.
  • Hatred makes me unable to see any good.
  • Hatred takes me to s place where grace cannot live.


I may justify my words and say “I don’t hate the person” but if I am constantly thinking of their wrongs and talking about their missteps, I hate them, plain and simple. What can help me with this hatred?
  • GOD says to me “Love one another” is the greatest command.
  • GOD says to me “How can I show you grace if you cannot show others grace?”
  • GOD says to me “Pray for your enemies for it is easy to pray for those who love you.”


Even a slight margin of hatred can breed a war. I tussle with GOD when HE tries to get me to do the right thing. GOD wants me to turn my amazing hate into amazing grace. When I do this, HE gives me rewards that I cannot imagine!

  • Are you on the path to hatred?
  • Is there someone in your life or on the news who you talk about constantly in a negative way?
  • Can you stop your hatred and get on the road to grace?
  • Will you ask GOD to heal your wounds and channel you anger towards GOD’s love?


Tuesday, April 7, 2015

The Preference is People


Psalm 30:To you, Lord, I called;
    to the Lord I cried for mercy:
“What is gained if I am silenced,
    if I go down to the pit?
Will the dust praise you?
    Will it proclaim your faithfulness?
10 Hear, Lord, and be merciful to me;
    Lord, be my help.”
11 You turned my wailing into dancing;
    you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy,
12 that my heart may sing your praises and not be silent.

    Lord my God, I will praise you forever.

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“Let’s get this over with” was the thought that flashed in my mind as the church announcements droned on and on. “Blah, blah I need this and blah, blah, I need that!” Let’s just get on with the church part so I can get home.

  • Sometimes my attitude makes me blind.
  • Sometimes my thinking gets in the way.
  • Sometimes my demeanor is heartless.


When I went to “church” only thinking of “me” sermons became irritating. In fact, anyone who asked for gifts became irritating. Quite honestly, if anyone corrected me about my approach to church, I found them irritating as well. Soon I wasn’t praising much at all, rather complaining about what was wrong with the church, work and community.

My giving was not sacrificial and my help to others was limited. BUT GOD said do something about this NOW!

  • GOD says to me “I can make the rocks cry out to praise ME, but I prefer you to do it.”
  • GOD says to me “I made all creation, but I have given you free will to praise ME or not.”
  • GOD says to me “Chose this day who you will serve, ME or those who do not serve ME.”


GOD has opened my eyes to the judgment I placed on my giving. I now see that I did this as “protection” for myself rather than being generous to please GOD. I critiqued churches because I wanted to hear what I wanted to hear. I complained about people at work because I didn’t want to point at my own mess. BUT GOD showed HIS mercy and has blessed me instead of punishing me. I can praise HIM forever!

  • Are you shrinking away from helping people?
  • Are you super suspicious of those who are sent to you and are in need?
  • Can you believe you may be serving an angel and are not aware of it?
  • Can you stop complaining at work, church or at home and begin praising GOD?


Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Choose what to say

Job:16:I also could speak like you,
    if you were in my place;
I could make fine speeches against you
    and shake my head at you.
But my mouth would encourage you;
    comfort from my lips would bring you relief.

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No wonder GOD says “Be slow to anger” because when I am angry at someone I find it very hard to provide words of comfort. “Serves you right” comes out of my mouth instead of “Things will be fine.” BUT GOD says do something different.

  • GOD says to me “Show mercy to others as I have shown mercy to you.”
  • GOD says to me “Pray for your enemies for I will repay.”
  • GOD says to me “Love your neighbors as you love yourself.


He would rather have me focus on what is right rather than what is wrong. HE wants my words to be full of encouragement rather than poison. Blessings should me my words of comfort.

  • Are you complaining about someone?
  • How many of your words contain poison on a daily basis?
  • Can you make the choice to say encouraging words to someone today?
  • Will you ask GOD for the right words to say?


Tuesday, January 13, 2015

Listening



Job 15: 11 Are God’s consolations not enough for you,
    words spoken gently to you?
12 Why has your heart carried you away,
    and why do your eyes flash,
13 so that you vent your rage against God
    and pour out such words from your mouth?

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Listening to GOD can be difficult sometimes. I mean HE is invisible and inaudible right? Wrong! GOD is extremely visible and is in front of me right now. HE made everything with HIS power and speaks to me daily. I may not want to hear what HE has to say and that’s why I need grace.

  • GOD says “Give to that person” and it’s up to me to respond the way HE wants me to.
  • GOD says “Forgive that person” and it’s up to me to respond the way HE has forgiven me.
  • GOD says “Pray for that person” and it’s up to me to respond the way HE showed me by the example of praying for those who killed HIM.


When I vent my anger at GOD, I’m telling HIM HE isn’t doing a good job and I know better. My frustration leads to a complaint rather than praise. GOD wants me to see HIM the way HE shows me. HE says just look around and you will see ME. Seek and I will find.

Friday, September 5, 2014

Asking for Forgiveness


2 Chronicles 6: 21 Hear the supplications of your servant and of your people Israel when they pray toward this place. Hear from heaven, your dwelling place; and when you hear, forgive.

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Laughing at the escapades of a friend, the teacher came in and saw what he was doing and immediately grabbed his arm to get his attention (yeah I know, this is back in the day). She said he would have to stay after school fifteen minutes. The laughter stopped but a giggle still remained on my face.

She then turned to me and asked “what’s so funny?” Then the words of devastation came from her mouth “You stay too! And when the time is up I want you to apologize.” Parents knew how long it would take us to get home and if we weren’t there we were questioned. And besides, why do I have to apologize? “I didn’t do anything wrong” I said to myself.

  • Many times I don’t see myself as being guilty.
  • Many times I rationalize what I’m doing to justify my actions.
  • Many times I think I am innocent when I am really guilty.


GOD said “Your righteousness is like filthy rags” and HE is right. My acts of service have sin at the core. Even my prayers come from a sinful perspective because GOD knows I will do the same sin again and again. But there is something amazing that happens with GOD when I communicate to HIM.

  • GOD says “All have sinned and have fallen short of MY glory.”
  • GOD says “Confess sins. I am faithful and righteous to forgive sins and to cleanse from all unrighteousness.”
  • GOD says “I truly love you so put your trust in ME.”


Admitting to GOD that I need HIM instead of being on the path I am on helps me see HIM in a different light. Instead of blaming the ONE I need I have to humbly ask for forgiveness especially when I think I haven’t done anything wrong. The Pharisees never could see they were wrong so they could never confess.

Asking GOD for forgiveness is a privilege. It shows HIM I have nowhere to turn and I trust HIS ways.

  • Are you in a quandary?
  • Do you feel GOD has forgotten you?
  • Can you ask HIM for forgiveness and to open your eyes to a stronger relationship with HIM today?
  • Can you stop being defeated, put your feelings behind you and start trusting in GOD?


Friday, May 23, 2014

Being Part of the Set Up

1 Kings 21:Jezebel his wife said, “Is this how you act as king over Israel? Get up and eat! Cheer up. I’ll get you the vineyard of Naboth the Jezreelite.”

So she wrote letters in Ahab’s name, placed his seal on them, and sent them to the elders and nobles who lived in Naboth’s city with him. In those letters she wrote:

“Proclaim a day of fasting and seat Naboth in a prominent place among the people. 10 But seat two scoundrels opposite him and have them bring charges that he has cursed both God and the king. Then take him out and stone him to death.”

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Setting people up for failure was common in the workplace. Give a person a task and don’t give them the resources or support, then write an evaluation on them. Everyone was mad at this consultant anyway, and besides, in my mind he was a jerk!

  • JESUS was falsely accused.
  • JESUS was murdered by those who didn’t like HIM and who wanted power.
  • JESUS was set up for failure by those who wanted HIM out of the way.


Slander is easy when I want to shine, but it takes maturity to confess my wrongs and admit my failures. GOD does not want me to be part of tearing people down rather HE wants me to encourage them to do better. I know everyone cannot be motivated by my words, but I should be ready to speak HIS words when GOD delivers someone to me.

  • Are you setting someone up for failure?
  • Have you pulled your support back?
  • Can you encourage “that” person with words of GOD?


Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Hard Choices


2 Samuel 20:Now a troublemaker named Sheba son of Bikri, a Benjamite, happened to be there. He sounded the trumpet and shouted,

“We have no share in David,
    no part in Jesse’s son!

Every man to his tent, Israel!”

So all the men of Israel deserted David to follow Sheba son of Bikri. But the men of Judah stayed by their king all the way from the Jordan to Jerusalem.

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“The teacher is a drunk” I giggled. Normally quiet, I wanted to break in my new comedy routine but did it quite awkwardly. This particular teacher did not like me nor did I have any great feelings for her. She was mean, but with me, she seemed to go out of her way. My quip made those around me giggle so her investigation almost got me sent to the principal. I was given a choice, keep clowning or straighten up.

  • Sometimes it’s not my peers that makes me do wrong things.
  • Sometimes it’s not the situation that makes me want to do wrong.
  • Sometimes it’s not someone else tempting me when I do something wrong.


It’s a hard pill to swallow when I’m at fault. I mean, I try to convince everyone around me that “they” are doing things to me, meanwhile I thicken my blinders to the root cause, namely me. The limelight feels great but I noticed my crowd quickly disappeared when the heat got turned up. Soon I was left standing there labeled as a troublemaker.

  • GOD wants me to admit I need HIM rather than thinking other people are the problem.
  • GOD wants me to trust HIS ways rather than speaking against HIM.
  • GOD wants me to be wise as a serpent and harmless as a dove.


The attention I sought needs to be placed on GOD rather than myself. HIS path is far greater than any other path I could choose.

  • Are you causing trouble?
  • Are you talking about someone else without speaking about how you have failed in the past?
  • Can you mature and get on GOD’s path?
  • Can you check out your words today to see if they have poison rather than praise?


Thursday, April 10, 2014

What goes around comes around


2 Samuel 17: Ahithophel said to Absalom, “I would choose twelve thousand men and set out tonight in pursuit of David. I would attack him while he is weary and weak. I would strike him with terror, and then all the people with him will flee. I would strike down only the king and bring all the people back to you. The death of the man you seek will mean the return of all; all the people will be unharmed.” This plan seemed good to Absalom and to all the elders of Israel.

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But Absalom said, “Summon also Hushai the Arkite, so we can hear what he has to say as well.”

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Hushai replied to Absalom, “The advice Ahithophel has given is not good this time.

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14 Absalom and all the men of Israel said, “The advice of Hushai the Arkite is better than that of Ahithophel.” For the Lord had determined to frustrate the good advice of Ahithophel in order to bring disaster on Absalom.

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Fed up with being pushed around, I started lifting weights. Soon I gained some nice size and I started hanging with the muscle heads. One guy was particularly mean. Okay, I think he was on steroids. He suggested we go out to a bar with him to have some “fun.” Not knowing what he meant, I agreed.

Another guy said “I don’t think we should go” so I didn’t.  A few days later the bar going guy furiously stormed into the gym. “Why didn’t y’all show up? I had to fight these guys all by myself.”

GOD has protected me many times from bad advice and stupid actions. In this instance I was protected from becoming the bully I longed to get away from. I played out the scenario after the incident and I could see nothing but destruction.

  • GOD says to me “Whatsoever you sow you will reap.”
  • GOD says to me “Love one another as I have loved you.”
  • GOD says to me “Be slow to anger.”
  • GOD says to me “Vengeance is MINE.”


When I am full of rage and fury, my next steps are very important. I can take the full rage and turn it into hatred, spreading poison and death to many or I can follow what GOD says and give HIM my poison and let HIM diffuse the situation. If I choose GOD’s way I must realize HE wants to save “that” person as well. Whatever the choice, I will reap what I sow.

  • Are you angry at someone?
  • Do you have rage?
  • Can you let go of your anger and rage and let GOD work it all out?


Wednesday, April 2, 2014

GOD knows that too


2 Samuel 12:Then Nathan said to David, “You are the man! This is what the Lord, the God of Israel, says: ‘I anointed you king over Israel, and I delivered you from the hand of Saul. I gave your master’s house to you, and your master’s wives into your arms. I gave you all Israel and Judah. And if all this had been too little, I would have given you even more. 

Why did you despise the word of the Lord by doing what is evil in his eyes? You struck down Uriah the Hittite with the sword and took his wife to be your own. You killed him with the sword of the Ammonites.

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“Look what I found” a friend exclaimed to me. It was a check book and a license.  We were in the student union and lost and found was right around the corner.  We quickly passed the office not even thinking about it.  We jumped in my raggedy car and gleefully bought a ton of groceries!

We had found someone’s identity and stolen it. On the way home my car made a funny noise then a very loud noise. We were stuck. I had to walk to find a phone to call a tow truck. The expense of the tow and repair was almost exactly half of the stolen grocery bill.

  • When the words “No one will ever know” pops in my head I’m already in trouble.
  • When I say to myself “It’s just this time” I’m already in trouble.
  • When I am convinced that no one saw “that” I’m already in trouble.


The problem with hidden sin is thinking it’s hidden.  I guess that’s why I take the time to openly write about sin just to get the sting of admittance out the way!

  • GOD says to me “No sin will be hidden.”
  • GOD says to me “Everything you did will be made known to everyone.”
  • GOD says to me “I know your heart and everything about you.”


I know GOD is slow to anger and is extremely patient, but there have been times in my life where I felt HE had enough of me ignoring HIM and HIS ways. When I ignore GOD it’s like I’s saying HE doesn’t mind or doesn’t even exist. Sometimes it’s almost like I’m saying, “I dare you to zap me.” Well, maybe not that extreme, but my action speaks volumes in my relationship with HIM.

GOD wants me to be mature enough to openly admit when I have sinned. It doesn’t make the sin go away, but it repairs my relationship with HIM who makes my sin go away!

  • Are you hiding something?
  • Do you think you will make it to the grave with “that” secret?
  • Can you confess your sins so GOD will be faithful and just to forgive your sins and cleanse you of ALL unrighteousness? 


Tuesday, April 1, 2014

When the cover up backfires

2 Samuel 11:So David sent this word to Joab: “Send me Uriah the Hittite.” And Joab sent him to David. When Uriah came to him, David asked him how Joab was, how the soldiers were and how the war was going. Then David said to Uriah, “Go down to your house and wash your feet.” So Uriah left the palace, and a gift from the king was sent after him. But Uriah slept at the entrance to the palace with all his master’s servants and did not go down to his house.

10 David was told, “Uriah did not go home.” So he asked Uriah, “Haven’t you just come from a military campaign? Why didn’t you go home?”

11 Uriah said to David, “The ark and Israel and Judah are staying in tents, and my commander Joab and my lord’s men are camped in the open country. How could I go to my house to eat and drink and make love to my wife? As surely as you live, I will not do such a thing!”

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“What will I do? What will I do?” I fearfully thought to myself. It was dusk and the light waned quickly.  I searched and found a can that seemed to match. I crept close, spray painted the dented car and went into the house trying to think of my next move.  I didn’t have one!

  • Sin makes me not admit things.
  • Sin makes me want to cover it up.
  • Sin makes me want to not have any consequences.


David tried to cover up his sin, but the mess was too big. The problem was, everyone else around him was acting noble and he was the one who caused the problem.  Eventually he had a person murdered and others died during this massive cover-up. GOD was not pleased.

  • GOD wants me to accept HIS consequence for my sin here on earth.
  • GOD wants me to admit I need HIM rather than scheming to get away with something.
  • GOD wants me to trust that HIS chastening is in love rather than destruction.


JESUS died for my sins and enabled me to have everlasting life. This does not take away the punishment for the things I do here on earth. GOD wants me to follow HIM and trust HIS ways. When I lust, doubt or do other blatant sins, GOD sometimes corrects my course by throwing calamity in my path.

HE knows the sin path leads me to destruction and wants nothing but the best for me. He wants me to come clean with hidden sin.

  • Are you hiding something?
  • Do you think your sin will not be made known?
  • Won’t you start your path to forgiveness by admitting your sin?
  • Can you stop pretending the problems you face are GOD’s fault and evaluate what you need to tell HIM?


Tuesday, March 25, 2014

Blaming GOD


2 Samuel 6:When they came to the threshing floor of Nakon, Uzzah reached out and took hold of the ark of God, because the oxen stumbled. The Lord’s anger burned against Uzzah because of his irreverent act; therefore God struck him down, and he died there beside the ark of God.

Then David was angry because the Lord’s wrath had broken out against Uzzah, and to this day that place is called Perez Uzzah.

David was afraid of the Lord that day and said, “How can the ark of the Lord ever come to me?” 10 He was not willing to take the ark of the Lord to be with him in the City of David. Instead, he took it to the house of Obed-Edom the Gittite. 11 The ark of the Lord remained in the house of Obed-Edom the Gittite for three months, and the Lord blessed him and his entire household.

12 Now King David was told, “The Lord has blessed the household of Obed-Edom and everything he has, because of the ark of God.” So David went to bring up the ark of God from the house of Obed-Edom to the City of David with rejoicing.

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Finally at 12:30AM I went to bed after watching my racy show. This would be a normal day, I thought to myself. As I raced to the airport traffic was unusually thick entering the parking area. I cut it too close and watched the plane pull away from boarding area as I had arrived.

GOD why are YOU doing this to me?! I screamed in my mind!  With the sunken feeling of reality, I booked the next flight, knowing the partner of the firm would be livid. He was!

  • Sometimes when things don’t go my way I blame GOD.
  • Sometimes when things are going wrong I blame GOD.
  • Sometimes when I think things aren’t fair I blame GOD.


David wasn’t supposed to have the ark of GOD on a cart rather it was to be carried by consecrated people as a burden to their sins. David became angry at GOD for killing a person when in reality David was the cause. I can see similar situations in my life when I am mad at GOD but blind to the sin I’m doing in my life.

  • GOD wants me to recognize my own sin and admit it ti HIM.
  • GOD wants me to understand when I’m blaming HIM and focus on praising HIM.
  • GOD wants me to control my contempt of HIM being GOD and thank HIM rather than blame HIM.


With my sin GOD doesn’t always react with punishment. If that were the case, I would have been wiped off the planet years ago. GOD sometimes punishes me and other times HE teaches me with grace, mercy and love. HE is to be praised, not blamed!

  • Are you blaming GOD for your circumstance?
  • Are you trying to control your situation too much?
  • Can you let go of your situation and allow GOD to yield HIS fruit?
  • Won’t you review your own life and give HIM areas that are holding you back from greatness?


Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Should I celebrate when my enemies fall?


2 Samuel 1: 23 Saul and Jonathan—
    in life they were loved and admired,
    and in death they were not parted.
They were swifter than eagles,
    they were stronger than lions.
24 “Daughters of Israel,
    weep for Saul,
who clothed you in scarlet and finery,
    who adorned your garments with ornaments of gold.

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It was a very snide conversation that I remember vividly. A woman tried to take over our system by selling hers to individual franchisees. She had convinced a group that they would lose money if they went with the corporate system instead of hers. I rallied the senior executives and we put a plan together to squelch the fire of miscommunication.

The plan worked and we were able to deploy the corporate system without flaw. I rejoiced because she was pretty smug in her approach. A thought popped in my head to call her and ask her how she felt now that she lost!

  • In the past I felt great when others fell.
  • In the past I rejoiced when the rich and powerful got what was coming to them.
  • In the past I made enemies and rejoiced taking them down.


Saul wanted to kill David with all of his heart. The LORD departed Saul and he had a rage of jealousy that left him focused on a futile vendetta. When the word came to David that Saul and Jonathan died, he wept bitterly. He wept for his enemy.

  • GOD truly wants me to desire that everyone gets to know HIS SON.
  • GOD wants me to desire the best for everyone in my prayers, actions and discussions.
  • GOD wants me to desire grace, mercy and love for everyone including those who intentionally have harmed me in the past.


Quite honestly, it is difficult to climb up to the place where I can really desire something better for my enemies. BUT GOD says HE will reward me when I pray for them to succeed in getting to know HIS SON. Each time I do this, I actually have won the battle and the war.

  • Do you have someone who is acting like your enemy right now?
  • Do you sneer and scoff at a leader or someone in power?
  • Can you stop feeling sorry for yourself and ask GOD to forgive you and that person?
  • Won’t you pray about “that” person hoping they will know CHRIST who is responsible for all forgiveness? 


Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Being above pettiness

1 Samuel 30: 21 Then David came to the two hundred men who had been too exhausted to follow him and who were left behind at the Besor Valley. They came out to meet David and the men with him. As David and his men approached, he asked them how they were. 22 But all the evil men and troublemakers among David’s followers said, “Because they did not go out with us, we will not share with them the plunder we recovered. However, each man may take his wife and children and go.”

23 David replied, “No, my brothers, you must not do that with what the Lord has given us. He has protected us and delivered into our hands the raiding party that came against us. 24 Who will listen to what you say? The share of the man who stayed with the supplies is to be the same as that of him who went down to the battle. All will share alike.”25 David made this a statute and ordinance for Israel from that day to this.


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“I’m not sure if he is a good boss or not” were the words that came from my lips as we met by the coffee machine and chatted. Months later we were going through yet another reorganization. He moved my family to a faraway land and we still questioned the validity of his business prowess, but exclaimed praise for his upward momentum.

One day he pulled me in his office and said, “I have watched over you. Raise yourself above any petty talk and you will succeed.” I think he knew I was talking about him. He blessed me for years after with raises and promotions. He went on to become the CEO.

  • When I gossip I am being petty.
  • When I talk about people who didn’t pull their weight I am being petty.
  • When I think negatively about someone GOD is raising up I am being petty.


“Eighty percent of the work is done by twenty percent” of the people is how the old saying goes. Am I in helping group or the group that sits back and murmurs and complains about the boss? Well apparently I was in the latter of the two. BUT GOD wants me to be different.

  • GOD wants me to stop complaining about “that” person and start praying “for” that person.
  • GOD wants me to stop murmuring and start moving.
  • GOD wants me to stop holding people back and start helping them move forward.


From his mentorship I was able to let go of my pettiness and grow people to become my boss and greater without being jealous. GOD blessed me with removing my blindness to others and great thing happened.

  • Are you being petty?
  • Are you too blind to see what GOD sees in “that” person?
  • Do you murmur about “those” people?
  • Can you reduce your complaining and gossiping and begin praising GOD for  HIS blessings?


Tuesday, January 14, 2014

If I don’t know then am I accountable?


Judges 14:Some time later, when he went back to marry her, he turned aside to look at the lion’s carcass, and in it he saw a swarm of bees and some honey. He scooped out the honey with his hands and ate as he went along. When he rejoined his parents, he gave them some, and they too ate it. But he did not tell them that he had taken the honey from the lion’s carcass.

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Standing in line in one of my frequent eatery joints a man approached me with the ultimate cliché… “you want to buy a watch?” This was easy for me to resist because I knew it was stolen and besides the watch was way too big for my scrawny arms.

As I proceeded outside another guy approached me. “You want to buy a DVD?” the movie was still in the theater and I really wanted to see it. “Hmmm” I thought to myself.

  • Sometimes I ignore what is wrong so I can have what I want.
  • Sometimes I fool myself into thinking “if I don’t know something wrong happened then maybe it’s alright.”
  • Sometimes I conveniently forget to tell others if I have done wrong and they don’t know why consequence has fallen on them.


Consequence of sin is usually not what I want to hear when it comes to GOD. I mean isn’t HE all love and no wrath? On the contrary, GOD is all powerful, full of love and wrath. GOD despises when I categorize my sin into large and small so I can get away with the “small.”

  • GOD wants me to confess my sins so HE will be faithful and just to forgive me of my sins and cleanse me of all unrighteousness.
  • GOD wants me to take HIS yoke upon me and learn about HIM so I can allow HIM to steer my path.
  • GOD wants me to allow HIM to lead me beside still water which means I have to be on HIS path.


Allowing GOD to be in my life means GOD has the right to say “NO” or “Not now” or “yes, but with a different outcome.” I should not hide ‘what I’m doing’ from HIM so HE can guide my path.

  • Are you ignoring what’s going on around you so you can get your way?
  • Are you caught up in something that you feel is not right?
  • Are you blind to the fact that you may be off GOD’s path?
  • Can you learn of GOD and confess what you are doing so HE can put you on HIS path?

Thursday, June 20, 2013

GOD’s love is strong!


Exodus 34:As he passed in front of Moses, he called out. He said, “I am the Lord, the Lord. I am a God who is tender and kind. I am gracious. I am slow to get angry. I am faithful and full of love. 

I continue to show my love to thousands of people. I forgive those who do evil. I forgive those who refuse to obey. And I forgive those who sin. But I do not let guilty people go without punishing them. I punish the children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren for the sin of their parents.”

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“What a rotten year” I said to myself once. After getting dumped and numerous tickets and the dean saying you are no longer at this university and my boss saying it’s only a matter of time before we fire you, I had reached the last straw. I still did not turn to GOD but I was truly exhausted. Where should I go for help?

  • Sin seems like a good idea when I am in pain.
  • Throwing a pity party seems like a good idea when things are going wrong.
  • Spreading my misery seems like a good idea when I am down.


I probably secretly want everyone else miserable around me so I pout and complain. I share my misery openly but calculate sharing my relationship with GOD. Then I sin and feel miserable and do it again. Is there any relief?

  • GOD says “I am the LORD” which means HE is supreme.
  • GOD says “I am a GOD who is tender and kind” which means HE sees beyond my situation.
  • GOD says “I am gracious” which means HE understands my mess yet forgives me to the fullest.
  • GOD says “I am slow to get angry” which means HE knows I’m going to mess up again and again.
  • GOD says “I am faithful and full of love” which means HE is not out to get me like I sometimes fear.


GOD does quite the opposite of my thinking.  When I think I have arrived and act judgmental, HE is not pleased. When I realize how sinful I truly am acting HE reaches HIS arms out and gently leads me back to HIM. HE forgives me even when I refuse to obey HIM. HE loves me.

  • Are you going through difficult times?
  • Do you feel GOD has left you?
  • Can you realize GOD is very slow to anger and knows what you are going through?
  • Can you take a moment to praise HIM for HIS faithfulness towards you?
  • Can you say out loud “Thank you GOD for loving me”?


Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Am I shining my light?


Exodus 27: 20 “Command the people of Israel to bring you clear oil that is made from pressed olives. Use it to keep the lamps burning and giving light.

21 “Aaron and his sons must keep the lamps burning in the Tent of Meeting. The lamps will be outside the curtain that is in front of the tablets of the covenant. The lamps must be kept burning in my sight from evening until morning. That is a law for the people of Israel that will last for all time to come.

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“What’s the purpose of serving” I said to myself in a moment of tantrum. I mean GOD doesn’t seem to listen to me anyway. Why do I have to do all this stuff? Maybe I’ll stop serving and then I will get my way.

This came after being rejected for a job that I really wanted. It was going to be my way to move back to the city where I grew up. People saw me pouting and avoided me.

  • When I am down because I am not getting what I want I hide my light.
  • When I am angry because of what someone else is doing I hide my light.
  • When I am judgmental and excluding towards others I hide my light.


Every law is important to GOD. HE made the priests shine light for all the people to see and wants me to do the same. JESUS said “do not hide your light under a bushel” meaning not letting my lust, anger, selfishness or fear get in the way of showing others how GOD loves me. The more I pout, the more I tell people GOD doesn’t care.

  • GOD cares about me so I should tell others.
  • GOD loves me so I should show this with excitement.
  • GOD forgives me so I should forgive others.


There are many ways to show my light. In the face of adversity I can smile. When someone is in need of a drink I can provide a meal too. If I’m facing trouble instead of being pitiful I can serve others with joy. GOD’s light and words will not come back void. In other words the smallest thing I do or say grows HIS kingdom and that’s reward enough!

  • Are you pouting right now?
  • Are you hiding your light because you are not getting your way?
  • Can you share your faith with others by focusing on what is right?
  • Won’t you help someone grow today?