Showing posts with label Decision making. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Decision making. Show all posts

Friday, October 3, 2025

Decision Makers Succeeded

Decision Makers Succeeded

Genesis 36: 31 Now these were the kings who reigned in the land of Edom before any king reigned over the children of Israel: 32 Bela the son of Beor reigned in Edom, and the name of his city was Dinhabah. 33 And when Bela died, Jobab the son of Zerah of Bozrah reigned in his place. 34 When Jobab died, Husham of the land of the Temanites reigned in his place. 35 And when Husham died, Hadad the son of Bedad, who attacked Midian in the field of Moab, reigned in his place. And the name of his city was Avith. 36 When Hadad died, Samlah of Masrekah reigned in his place. 37 And when Samlah died, Saul of Rehoboth-by-the-River reigned in his place. 38 When Saul died, Baal-Hanan the son of Achbor reigned in his place. 39 And when Baal-Hanan the son of Achbor died, Hadar reigned in his place; and the name of his city was Pau. His wife’s name was Mehetabel, the daughter of Matred, the daughter of Mezahab.

 

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Israel, did not have a king, but Esau’s people did. Many Edom kings were listed. All died.

 

My Observations:

  • Edom kings reigned for a short period of time then died and someone took his place.
  • War and raiding were the marks left by Edomite kings.
  • Kings were put in place to decide what large groups of people would do.

 

Israel had GOD as their leader, therefore did not need a king. Other groups felt they needed a decision maker put in place to guide them in their activities. Unfortunately, the human kings would desire power and wealth. Armies were formed to raid and pillage surrounding lands.

 

Sodom and Gomorrah had kings, Bera and Birsha. When GOD destroyed the cities, Abraham became feared. But as time went on, the fear dissipated. GOD flooded the earth, destroyed a city with fire and the people soon forgot HIS power. The people of Edom desired human results.

 

Challenge

  • Why does GOD mention “before any king reigned over the children of Israel” to Moses?
  • Are you desperately desiring human results?
  • Can you wait on GOD’s results versus the human results you may be seeking?

Monday, April 14, 2025

Lasting Decisions

Lasting Decisions

Genesis 19: 30 Then Lot went up out of Zoar and dwelt in the mountains, and his two daughters were with him; for he was afraid to dwell in Zoar. And he and his two daughters dwelt in a cave. 31 Now the firstborn said to the younger, “Our father is old, and there is no man on the earth to come in to us as is the custom of all the earth. 32 Come, let us make our father drink wine, and we will lie with him, that we may preserve the lineage of our father.” 33 So they made their father drink wine that night. And the firstborn went in and lay with her father, and he did not know when she lay down or when she arose.

 

34 It happened on the next day that the firstborn said to the younger, “Indeed I lay with my father last night; let us make him drink wine tonight also, and you go in and lie with him, that we may preserve the lineage of our father.” 35 Then they made their father drink wine that night also. And the younger arose and lay with him, and he did not know when she lay down or when she arose.

 

36 Thus both the daughters of Lot were with child by their father. 37 The firstborn bore a son and called his name Moab; he is the father of the Moabites to this day. 38 And the younger, she also bore a son and called his name Ben-Ammi; he is the father of the people of Ammon to this day.

 

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Not having much time to think, Lot asked the angels if he could escape to a small, insignificant suburb of Sodom and Gomorrah. JESUS and the Angels told Abraham they would destroy Sodom because the people were deeply involved in sin. Lot, his wife and daughters were taken out of the city. Lot’s wife looked back, longingly, during the destruction and turned into a pillar of salt.

 

Everything happened so fast! There was no time to think. When Lot and his daughters arrived in the town he named Zoar, he realized that the people there would be against him, just like he feared the people in the mountains would. He left Zoar and fled to the mountains, just like the angels told him.

 

My Observations:

  • Lot’s short-term decisions seemed to be disastrous.
  • Lot chose to go to Sodom, knowing how evil the people were.
  • Lot fled in fear to the mountains with his daughters and they followed in his footsteps of decision making.

 

Raised as Sodomites, Lot’s daughters devised a plan to get what they wanted without thinking of GOD. This had been the issue with Cain, Canaan and many others who saw GOD as a problem versus an answer. Because of this decision to get Lot drunk and have a child by him, the Moabites and the Ammonites would be born.

 

Something drove Lot’s decision making. When he chose Sodom, he saw something that looked like success and was willing to overlook evil to obtain it. Same with Lot’s daughters. They were willing to get what they wanted, overlooking anything that would go against GOD’s desires.  They cared deeply about their father. They obeyed by not looking back and followed him into the mountain. They thought they were doing right by have a child by him. GOD gave this history to Moses.

 

Challenge

  • Why does GOD mention what happened to Lot and his daughters to Moses?
  • Have you ever thought about doing something that would please yourself short-term without considering if GOD wants you to do that thing?
  • Will you place your short-term thinking before GOD and accept HIS long term answer?

Friday, August 30, 2024

Decision Making

Decision Making

Revelation 17: Then one of the seven angels who had the seven bowls came to me and said, “Come, and I will show you how the famous prostitute is to be punished, that great city that is built near many rivers. 2 The kings of the earth practiced sexual immorality with her, and the people of the world became drunk from drinking the wine of her immorality.”

 

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Being out on my own felt great! I was free to make my own decisions and had no one to tell me what I could and could not do. The first night of my freedom led me to a party where everyone would get drunk. I joined in. The next morning I woke up, opened my door and there was a woman, passed out on the floor, outside my door. “Wow!, I’m going to like this place!” I said to myself!

 

  • I wanted to be part of the drunken parties.
  • I wanted to take part in the sex.
  • I wanted to do “what everyone else” was doing!

 

John, the disciple JESUS loved, was addressed by one of the seven angels who held the bowls. The angel explained that whatever was causing the world to make bad decisions would be punished.

 

My Observations:

  • My decision making needed some guidance from GOD.
  • Following the world can cause me to get in trouble with GOD.
  • My clearest thinking includes times and ways to follow GOD.

 

Bad decisions seem easy to do and are plenteous these days. I mean, it seems like bad decisions are placed in front of me more that me searching them out. News and other media portray terrible ideas as the right thing to do. Meanwhile, morality gets questioned and even raised in heated debates. BUT GOD sees what’s going on.

 

JESUS knew you and I would choose the immorality versus HIS purity. HE never sinned, even though HE was tempted in the same way you and I were temped. HE died for our sins and was raised from the dead. All authority has been given to HIM. HE will judge the tempter, not the tempted, for those who believe in HIM. I am grateful for salvation from my sins.

 

Challenge

  • Why do you think the writer was noticed?
  • Have you ever wanted to be free to sin as much as you want?
  • Will you ask GOD for self-control and for protection from yourself, so HE can guide you to HIS Way, Truth and Life today?

Monday, September 26, 2022

Peaceful Decisions

Peaceful Decisions

Colossians 3: 15 The peace that Christ gives is to guide you in the decisions you make; for it is to this peace that God has called you together in the one body. And be thankful. 

 

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“You can stay with a demotion or leave with severance” were the strange options placed before me. My performance was impeccable, yet I had two bad options placed in front of me. My entire identity had been placed in that position. Something in me said “I will take you to better places.”

 

  • I was at peace when I heard I could let go.
  • I felt a sense of peace towards those who placed two bad decisions before me.
  • I released the turmoil I had, in exchange for peace.

 

Paul provides advice for those in need of making hard decisions. Tumultuous times and difficult situations, robbed people of peace and bad decisions that would cause more turmoil were the only options. What would be the answer?

 

My Observations

  • True peace can only come from GOD.
  • JESUS wants me to make better decisions so HE gives me peace in the middle of the storm.
  • GOD called me to have and provide peace along with others who seek HIS kingdom.

 

Harassed, worried, sleep deprived minds do not make good decisions. I mean, when I replay the trial I am going through over and over and over, I cannot rest. I think the worst is going to happen and I may make a “snap decision” that brings further regret. I may even start blaming others, which worsens the situation.

 

Decisions made for CHRIST brings peace. Sometimes a peaceful decision is not the most comfortable. It is based on following JESUS, which could be a more difficult road, laced with trials and accolades that are few and far between, if at all. I am grateful for this strange peace that provides me with HIS purpose.

 

Challenge

  • Why do you think the writer speaks about “peace?”
  • Have you ever had to make a hard decision that caused you to lose sleep or to spin, thinking about the situation over and over?
  • Will you settle your mind and think on CHRIST who will gladly give you peace in all decisions by asking HIM for the direction you should take today?

Thursday, August 25, 2022

Unstuck

Unstuck

Colossians 1: 19 For it was by God's own decision that the Son has in himself the full nature of God. 20 Through the Son, then, God decided to bring the whole universe back to himself. God made peace through his Son's blood on the cross and so brought back to himself all things, both on earth and in heaven.

 

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After years of dedication and hard work, I was told “the position is being eliminated.” Handing me an award for the best team added insult to injury. I could not concentrate during the final days. So much of my identity was tied up in work.

 

  • I was stuck on “my” accomplishments.
  • I was stuck on trying to make sense out of something that made no sense.
  • I was stuck trying to see if I made mistakes, so I spent hours replaying words, actions and thoughts.

 

GOD the FATHER gives the ultimate example of moving forward, according to Paul’s letter. HE showed unmatched restraint by allowing the creation to senselessly murder and blame the creator. HE decided to reconcile versus destroy everyone and everything.

 

My Observations

  • GOD provides me with a way to become unstuck when I get stuck in the past.
  • GOD’s example of forgiveness is something I can obtain when I ask for it.
  • GOD can help me to let go, especially when I relapse into pitying my circumstance.

 

“Forgive and forget” seems impossible when I am stuck. I mean, when I replay past hurts over and over and over again, I get stuck in a loop where there is no room for forgiveness. BUT GOD wants me out of the loop.

 

HE picks me up out of the hole of unforgiveness and moves me forward. HE gives me words of peace and reconciliation through the SON and enables me to serve those who threw poison darts at me. I am glad I can let go of seeing “punishment” and turn to GOD’s example of hoping everyone knows JESUS in a saving way.

 

Challenge

  • What human intervention does the writer mention, if any?
  • Have you ever been stuck in hurt or cannot see a way out of your situation?
  • Will you follow GOD’s example and decide to move forward regardless of past or current circumstances?

Monday, June 20, 2022

Directed Desires

Directed Desires

Philippians 1: 9 I pray that your love will keep on growing more and more, together with true knowledge and perfect judgment, 10 so that you will be able to choose what is best. Then you will be free from all impurity and blame on the Day of Christ. 11 Your lives will be filled with the truly good qualities which only Jesus Christ can produce, for the glory and praise of God.

 

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“Become well rounded” was the confusing statement said to me. What does that mean? I pondered. To some it meant reading certain prose, to others it meant traveling to various places and to others it meant interacting with a variety of people. But something was missing from the approaches when I tried them.

 

  • I wanted to fit in.
  • I wanted to protect myself.
  • I wanted to “get ahead” and “be successful.”

 

Paul’s prayer for everyone concludes with a statement on becoming “well rounded” in a very strange way. Love is the foundation coupled with true knowledge, coupled with perfect judgment. Humans can try to claim these important gifts, but they only can come from one place, namely JESUS CHRIST.

 

My Observations

  • To keep my hatred at bay, I must grow in the love of JESUS.
  • To keep my thoughts aligned, I must learn about my Savior.
  • To keep my lustful, sinful decisions to a minimum, I must use the judgment of CHRIST, which is perfect.

 

Following humans seems to lead to a person or group being superior. I mean, many discussions about how someone did something wrong and that other person did something right, makes us try to emulate who we want to follow. BUT GOD wants HIS SON to be the focus of the picture.

 

All of my choices should be run through three filters, love, true knowledge and perfect judgment, none of which I, or any other human contain. Only JESUS has love that is pure and knowledge that is not tainted and judgment that is perfect. HIS example is the model for me to follow. I am glad HE keeps me growing “more and more” each day.

 

Challenge

  • How does the writer suggest approaching decisions?
  • Have you ever looked back at times you did not use the best judgment?
  • Will you keep growing in GOD’s “love” for other people and seek learning about HIM and use HIS judgment which is made perfect through JESUS CHRIST today?

Thursday, December 9, 2021

Decision Making

Decision Making

2 Corinthians 6: 14 Do not try to work together as equals with unbelievers, for it cannot be done. How can right and wrong be partners? How can light and darkness live together? 15 How can Christ and the Devil agree? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? 16 How can God's temple come to terms with pagan idols? For we are the temple of the living God! As God himself has said,

 

“I will make my home with my people
    and live among them;
I will be their God,
    and they shall be my people.”
17 And so the Lord says,
“You must leave them
    and separate yourselves from them.
Have nothing to do with what is unclean,
    and I will accept you.
18 I will be your father,
    and you shall be my sons and daughters,
    says the Lord Almighty.”

 

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Seeking advice from my colleagues seemed to be the right thing to do. When I asked them questions about how to live life, they had some great answers, or so I thought. Once, they suggested I sneak away from work to get drunk. Other times they would say, “just lie” or “borrow it from the store.” “Okay” was my reply. But something had to change.

 

  • I was headed down a dark path.
  • I was tired of trying to follow rules that did not seem to get me “ahead” in life.
  • I stepped away from following GOD so I could do what “I” wanted to do.

 

Paul says something quite harsh. He warns the believers of JESUS not to be influenced by those who do not seek HIM as their Savior. He is not saying believers are perfect, rather their decision making goes through a different filter.

 

My Observations

  • GOD wants me to make decisions with the best information I have, namely HIS word.
  • GOD wants me to test my decisions by asking believers for prayer, guidance and inspiration.
  • GOD wants me to believe in JESUS and live for HIM so I can make decisions based on a life that inspires others to do the same.

 

Political thieves and power hungry people have sought to steal the precious name of JESUS. I mean, there are many complaints of the use of the word “Christian” because it is coupled with intolerance, impatience, ignorance and insulting behavior. Yes, I have done all the above. BUT GOD still wants me to speak on HIS behalf by learning about HIS love and aligning the message to HIM.

 

HE uses imperfect people to speak about JESUS, who was and is perfection. We cannot separate ourselves out of the world. Huddling around a bunch of people who look and act the same seems dangerous. GOD wants me to be in the world but not influenced by it. HE provides others who seek HIS face to encourage me and guide me. I am glad HE has many who follow HIM in all walks of life.

 

Challenge

  • What do you notice about the urgency of the writers words?
  • What suggestions do you have for someone who is trying to make decisions?
  • Will you seek a group of imperfect people who believe in JESUS as their Savior, to help you in your decision making or to help others live for HIM today? 

Thursday, July 8, 2021

Decisions, Decisions

 Decisions, Decisions

1 Corinthians 7: 36 In the case of an engaged couple who have decided not to marry: if the man feels that he is not acting properly toward the young woman and if his passions are too strong and he feels that they ought to marry, then they should get married, as he wants to There is no sin in this. 37 But if a man, without being forced to do so, has firmly made up his mind not to marry, and if he has his will under complete control and has already decided in his own mind what to do—then he does well not to marry the young woman. 38 So the man who marries does well, but the one who doesn't marry does even better.

 

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As I sat and pondered my decision making, I noticed a trend. When I used my own greed, lusts and fears to make a decision, the results were catastrophic. But when I followed GOD’s leading and used faith, love and HIS purpose, I was always successful.

 

  • There have been times when I made poor decisions based on arguments.
  • There have been times when I made poor decisions based on faulty facts.
  • There have been times when I made poor decisions based on trying to get what “I” wanted.

 

Paul discusses a difficult topic that was asked to him. “Should an engaged couple break up?” Paul addressed this by speaking of the root of decision making. GOD has to be in the middle of all decision making.

 

  • GOD wants me to ask HIS opinion first before doing anything large or small.
  • GOD wants me to seek HIS opinion first before making a decision.
  • GOD wants me to align my decision making with HIS so I can have no regrets.

 

Having regrets means deep down inside, I made a decision that did not align with GOD. I mean, I can try to justify my sinful decision, BUT GOD lives inside me and knows the most hidden decision. HE searches every crack and crevasse of my heart and exposes what is inside.

 

When I use the fruit of the Spirit to the best of my ability, I have no regrets for any of decision I make. It means I am fully aligned with the will of GOD and my decisions are pleasing to HIM.

 

  • What decisions are you trying to make?
  • Do you have a decision to make that needs to go before GOD?
  • Will you seek GOD’s advice before you make any more of your decisions today?

Monday, April 26, 2021

Basis of Decisions

 

Basis of Decisions

Romans 14: 19 So then, we must always aim at those things that bring peace and that help strengthen one another. 20 Do not, because of food, destroy what God has done. All foods may be eaten, but it is wrong to eat anything that will cause someone else to fall into sin. 21 The right thing to do is to keep from eating meat, drinking wine, or doing anything else that will make other believers fall. 22 Keep what you believe about this matter, then, between yourself and God. Happy are those who do not feel guilty when they do something they judge is right! 23 But if they have doubts about what they eat, God condemns them when they eat it, because their action is not based on faith. And anything that is not based on faith is sin.

 

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Being unsure of myself, I tried a tactic I did not like. One guy was good at eavesdropping on conversations. He would take what little facts he knew and try to put his own spin on it, to stay ahead of people. It seemed to work so I tried it. I listened in on someone else’s hallway conversation and overheard the wrong facts. I spread the wrong information. Now my credibility was shot.

 

  • There have been many times when I have been scared, so I looked for direction to make decisions.
  • There have been many times when I made decisions out of fear.
  • There have been many times when I used what people said as the basis of my decision making and wound up in a worse spot than I was at the beginning or my worries.

 

Paul concludes his Spirit filled plea to help everyone refrain from tearing down what GOD has done. If someone were to eat or not eat something, then opposing the person would be hurtful. This action would not be based on faith but possibly pride. “Anything that is not based on faith is sin.”

 

  • GOD wants me to run my decisions through HIM first.
  • GOD wants ne to believe in what HE told me and continue on HIS path.
  • GOD wants me to have faith in HIS plan for me and not feel guilty when I do something I judge as right for HIS kingdom.

 

Having a personal  relationship with JESUS requires faith. This means doubt needs to go somewhere else. I must move forward in faith, but if my faith is harmful to someone nearby, then GOD wants me to keep it between me and HIM. This pertains to a local interaction. But what about my other decisions?

 

GOD wants all my decisions to flow through faith in HIS power. HIS plans and promises are not to harm me but to provide me with a hope and a future. I gladly move forward with the faith that HE allows me to “do something I judge as right.”

 

  • Are you questioning a decision GOD told you to make?
  • Do you crumble at the smallest problem that may seem huge to you?
  • Will you relook at the decision through the faith GOD wants you to have and allow HIM to do HIS plan, HIS way, while you continue to judge what is right in clear conscience today?

Thursday, February 27, 2020

Decision Making


Acts 1: 21 “Therefore, of these men who have accompanied us all the time that the Lord Jesus went in and out among us, 22 beginning from the baptism of John to that day when He was taken up from us, one of these must become a witness with us of His resurrection.”

23 And they proposed two: Joseph called Barsabas, who was surnamed Justus, and Matthias. 24 And they prayed and said, “You, O Lord, who know the hearts of all, show which of these two You have chosen 25 to take part in this ministry and apostleship from which Judas by transgression fell, that he might go to his own place.” 26 And they cast their lots, and the lot fell on Matthias. And he was numbered with the eleven apostles.

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After being out of work for a while, I finally got an interview. We had a great discussion and I felt pretty good about the position. Walking with GOD with total reliance was a bit new to me. Previously, I relied on my strength, thinking it was me who made it to the top. Now humbled, I needed a job.

During the interview, the person said something strange. “We are in charge of the tech that enables porn to go into the rooms.” I got an offer, but turned down the job.

  • Some decisions are hard.
  • Some decisions seem extreme to make.
  • Some decisions look easy on the outside, but are really hard to make when it comes to GOD.


The disciples took finding another person, as part of their ministry, seriously. This person had to have been there at the beginning, when they were called by JESUS, all the way to the time HE was risen. They still could not decide. They asked GOD to make the decision.

  • When I need a decision, GOD wants me to ask HIM first.
  • When I need a decision, GOD wants me to allow HIM to say “no” or “wait” or “yes.”
  • When I need a decision, GOD wants me to see that HIS choice is always the best choice.


GOD sees though the scheme when I run up to HIM with my mind made up first, then asking HIM to just go along with “my” decision. Like a kid waiting until the last minute to ask, “Can I go out to the party with my friends who are waiting outside?” GOD sees through the pressure tactic, just like a parent would.

Unfortunately sometimes GOD says “yes” to something I should not have. HE grieves when I ask for something that goes thoroughly against HIS ways. BUT HE is full of love and allows me to fail and come back to HIM. The lesson from the pain grows me to ask HIM first then wait for HIS answer and accept HIS decision. I am glad I can put my decision before HIM.

  • What decision do you have to make?
  • Are you trying to make the decision on your own?
  • Will you ask GOD and accept HIS answer, knowing HE has what is best for you in mind?

Wednesday, February 20, 2019

Stability


Luke 21: 29 He told them this parable: ‘Look at the fig-tree and all the trees.30 When they sprout leaves, you can see for yourselves and know that summer is near. 31 Even so, when you see these things happening, you know that the kingdom of God is near.

32 ‘Truly I tell you, this generation will certainly not pass away until all these things have happened. 33 Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away.

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Disturbed at the situation, I asked a few people for advice. Unfortunately, each person had their own way of dealing with the puzzle. Some used rage and forcefulness while others used cunning and wit and another used empirical information. What should I trust?

  • Sometimes when I need to make decisions, I get confused.
  • Sometimes when there are many viewpoints I try to get the truth, but truth seems “relative.”
  • Sometimes when I am faced with large circumstances, I want to make the best choice and not waiver.


JESUS continues with HIS discussion about the end of the age. HE tells a parable about humans recognizing that spring is near by their observation of the budding of the trees. HE tried to tie this analogy to recognizing the signs of the times.

  • GOD wants me to recognize the signs of the times.
  • GOD wants me to understand that even though there will be a “falling away” from HIM, I must hold onto HIS promises.
  • GOD wants me to seek HIS words so I can make better decisions that are based on HIS truths.


Looking back, the best decisions I have ever made were those based on following GOD. Humans can try to put their political spin on things or their negative view, BUT GOD’s word provides me with a stable path to walk on. Any and every circumstance I can face is addressed through statements given by GOD to me through many prophetic writers.

 JESUS says something extremely important. “Heaven and earth will pass away, but MY words will never pass away.” I choose to seek HIS words as mu stable foundation.

  • Do you waiver from the philosophies of humans?
  • Do you try to join superior groups only to find they are infallible?
  • Can you stop seeking human wisdom and seek GODLY wisdom, knowledge and understanding today?


Tuesday, November 28, 2017

Guilty Decisions

Mark 6: 14 Now King Herod heard of Him, for His name had become well known. And he said, “John the Baptist is risen from the dead, and therefore these powers are at work in him.”

15 Others said, “It is Elijah.”

And others said, “It is the Prophet, or like one of the prophets.”

16 But when Herod heard, he said, “This is John, whom I beheaded; he has been raised from the dead!” 17 For Herod himself had sent and laid hold of John, and bound him in prison for the sake of Herodias, his brother Philip’s wife; for he had married her. 18 Because John had said to Herod, “It is not lawful for you to have your brother’s wife.”

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“I wonder if I got away with it?” was my question. I cannot remember which thing I did, but I was definitely guilty. When someone came near me and asked any question I wondered if they knew about that thing I had done. “Why are people looking at me?” was my thought.

  • When I am guilty I make guilty decisions.
  • When I am guilty I think everyone around me is bringing up my infraction.
  • When I am guilty I try to ignore my guilt but the guilt gets louder.


Herod was clearly guilty in many ways. He killed a person who told him of his infraction, now that JESUS was on the scene he thought it was his victim coming back to haunt him.

  • GOD wants me to tell others about my sin so others can feel comfortable with telling their sins.
  • GOD wants me to have peace and knows I will make mistakes.
  • GOD wants me to avoid sin, but knows I can come to HIM even when I do.


Herod mistook JESUS’s arrival. He was so self-centered in his sinful lifestyle that he missed the possibility of grace, same with me. I was trying to hide sins instead of making them known so others could forgive them or even learn from them.

GOD doesn’t want me to have guilty decisions because they lead to more and more shame. HE wants me have peace that only comes form HIM.

  • Are you guilty?
  • Have you been hiding your sin for a long time?
  • Can you be brave enough to confess your sin instead of trying to make others feel guilty?
  • Will you accept GOD’s grace today?


Tuesday, March 10, 2015

Slow Down to Decide


Psalm 11:4 But the LORD is in HIS Holy temple
                        the LORD still rules from heaven
            HE watches everything closely
                        examining everyone on earth
            5 The LORD examines both the righteous and the wicked
                        HE hates everyone who loves violence

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By now I was able to drive myself to work, but I still needed permission to go places. I have no idea how a friend of mine always had a party to go to but nonetheless, I wanted in. This was my opportunity. A person who I was supposed to fill in for at work no longer needed me to fill in. It was Friday night and the shift was from 6PM until 2AM. Let’s see, stay at home with the parents or go to the party with friends and not be seen as a square anymore! What should I have done?

  • When I am impatient I make decisions too quickly that may be detrimental.
  • When I decide in haste I usually regret the quick decision.
  • When I rush into a decision I usually do not think of the consequences.


Sin is part of my humanity. I was born with it and when I make decisions too quickly I can sometimes be fooled by its deadly grip. I then look up and I am in something I can’t get myself out of. How can I avoid this?

  • When I make a decision I should ask GOD for HIS direction.
  • When I make a decision I should allow GOD to say “No” or “Yes.”
  • When I make a decision I should understand that GOD is watching everything closely.


I know GOD understands when I sin. I was born with a deficit to my character and HE knows it. BUT GOD is pleased when I come to HIM first with my plans. HE loves it when I ask HIM first and when I yield to HIS decision. My relationship with GOD should have healthy fear of HIM but also healthy “love” of HIM which seeks HIS advice from time to time.

  • Are you worried and making snap decisions?
  • Can you slow down to listen to what GOD is saying to you?
  • Will you add GOD to your decision and know that HE is pleased with you regardless of the outcome?


Wednesday, February 26, 2014

The unexpected


1 Samuel 16: 8 Then Jesse called Abinadab and had him pass in front of Samuel. But Samuel said, “The Lord has not chosen this one either.” 9 Jesse then had Shammah pass by, but Samuel said, “Nor has the Lord chosen this one.” 10 Jesse had seven of his sons pass before Samuel, but Samuel said to him, “The Lord has not chosen these.” 11 So he asked Jesse, “Are these all the sons you have?”

“There is still the youngest,” Jesse answered. “He is tending the sheep.”
Samuel said, “Send for him; we will not sit down until he arrives.”

12 So he sent for him and had him brought in. He was glowing with health and had a fine appearance and handsome features.

Then the Lord said, “Rise and anoint him; this is the one.”

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Something seemed wrong about the resume, but this person interviewed extremely well. He dazzled my team with his spectacular stories and then he sat in front of me. I asked him piercing questions and he seemed to answer them well. He was well dressed and polished.

There was another person who wasn’t dressed so well but everyone liked him too. He had the qualifications and it simply came down to presentation. I chose the polished person thinking he would be able to present to hostile crowds. He ended up being a horrible hire that didn’t work out in only six months.

  • Sometimes I look at the outside of a person to make my decision.
  • Sometimes I look at the outer shell of a person hoping they will be able to perform.
  • Sometimes I look at the exterior of a person thinking they will be the same on the inside.


Looking at external features can get me in trouble. I place my confidence in the wrong thing and develop a plan that fails. BUT GOD looks at the heart.

  • GOD looks at my heart and places me in high places I don’t deserve.
  • GOD looks at my heart and knows when I am scared, yet HE chooses me to do battle.
  • GOD looks at my heart and delivers me from some very desperate situations.


It is GOD who chooses mankind to be where they are.  I shouldn’t pout when someone gets in office nor should I doubt that I can’t fulfill a role GOD has intended for me. GOD is the one who knows everyone’s heart and has a wonderful plan for each.

  • Do you doubt yourself and what GOD can do in your life?
  • Do you think GOD has forgotten about you?
  • Can you stop looking at your resources and talent and let GOD decide what HE wants to do for you?
  • Can you stop looking at other people and look at GOD?


Thursday, January 23, 2014

What is GOD trying to protect me from?

Judges 19: 9 Then when the man, with his concubine and his servant, got up to leave, his father-in-law, the woman’s father, said, “Now look, it’s almost evening. Spend the night here; the day is nearly over. Stay and enjoy yourself. Early tomorrow morning you can get up and be on your way home.” 10 But, unwilling to stay another night, the man left and went toward Jebus (that is, Jerusalem), with his two saddled donkeys and his concubine.

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16 That evening an old man from the hill country of Ephraim, who was living in Gibeah (the inhabitants of the place were Benjamites), came in from his work in the fields.

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20 “You are welcome at my house,” the old man said. “Let me supply whatever you need. Only don’t spend the night in the square.” 21 So he took him into his house and fed his donkeys. After they had washed their feet, they had something to eat and drink.

22 While they were enjoying themselves, some of the wicked men of the city surrounded the house. Pounding on the door, they shouted to the old man who owned the house, “Bring out the man who came to your house so we can have sex with him.”

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What a difficult piece of history this is!  This chapter had only a list of bad decisions that led to worse decisions that ultimately ended up with very, very bad things happening. It made me ponder… If GOD isn’t giving me something I really, really want, should I have it?

  • GOD sees my past and knows my future.
  • GOD understands what is good and healthy for me and protects me even from myself.
  • GOD delivers me from harm when I listen to HIM.


There have been parties I wanted to go to and my parents said “No” and I pouted. Looking back on one situation I do remember some “not so good” things happening to those who went. I pouted because the weather was bad and I couldn’t be with my friends. Many accidents happened that day and people were critically hurt.

I’m not spouting fear, doom and gloom. I just know that when I want something I should ask GOD if this thing I want is what HE wants for me. I should then allow HIM to say “No or Yes” and act accordingly. Usually if the thing I want doesn’t match following HIS word, I won’t get it.

  • Are you trying to go in your own direction?
  • Are you acting in fear?
  • Are you spreading fear to others?
  • Won’t you consult GOD instead of going down your own path?


Thursday, December 22, 2011

SPIRIT led choices

Acts:  21 Therefore it is necessary to choose one of the men who have been with us the whole time the Lord Jesus was living among us, 22 beginning from John’s baptism to the time when Jesus was taken up from us. For one of these must become a witness with us of his resurrection.”

 23 So they nominated two men: Joseph called Barsabbas (also known as Justus) and Matthias. 24 Then they prayed, “Lord, you know everyone’s heart. Show us which of these two you have chosen 25 to take over this apostolic ministry, which Judas left to go where he belongs.” 26 Then they cast lots, and the lot fell to Matthias; so he was added to the eleven apostles.

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When I got my first job out of college I drove to the small town without directions (typical man). I didn’t know the area or where I worked but I needed to find an apartment.  A car cut me off as I drove around my new “strange” town. Stopping to catch my breath, I glanced over and there was a set of hidden apartments, under my price range.

A feeling came over me saying “this is the place” so I immediately put a down payment on the place then I went to check out where I worked. To my amazement my job was only four blocks from my apartment.

  • I don’t have to see burning bushes to see GOD every day.
  • I don’t have to see seas splitting open to see GOD working in my life.
  • I don’t have to see fire rain down from heaven to see GOD steering me and guiding me.

Okay, there are times when I don’t feel comfortable speaking about the experiences I’ve had with GOD. I mean I feel like I will be looked at like I am a nut or people will brush off my situation as a coincidence or belittle it. BUT GOD says something different.

  • GOD is just as concerned about my “little” choices as much as the large ones.
  • GOD has a plan for me and has chosen me for that plan.
  • GOD protects and guides me.

The disciples were very SPIRIT led when making a choice for a new apostle. They relied on GOD to make the choice for them. Please don’t get me wrong, planning is great, just don’t leave GOD out of the plans!

  • Do you have a decision to make?
  • Have you considered allowing GOD to guide your direction?
  • Are you trying to control every aspect of your life?
  • Which decisions have you left up to the SPIRIT to make?