Showing posts with label Holier than thou attitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Holier than thou attitude. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 22, 2020

Accepted


Acts 15: 5 Then some of the believers who belonged to the party of the Pharisees stood up and said, “The Gentiles must be circumcised and required to keep the law of Moses.”

6 The apostles and elders met to consider this question. 7 After much discussion, Peter got up and addressed them: “Brothers, you know that some time ago God made a choice among you that the Gentiles might hear from my lips the message of the gospel and believe. 8 God, who knows the heart, showed that he accepted them by giving the Holy Spirit to them, just as he did to us. 9 He did not discriminate between us and them, for he purified their hearts by faith. 10 Now then, why do you try to test God by putting on the necks of Gentiles a yoke that neither we nor our ancestors have been able to bear? 11 No! We believe it is through the grace of our Lord Jesus that we are saved, just as they are.”

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It felt like I grew overnight when I put on a pair of pants and they were too short. While I wanted to be taller, now my clothes did not fit. People were already laughing at me about my hair, now this was added. And, with the new height, I looked skinnier. “I’m never going to fin in” I said to myself.

  • Many times I have been laughed at.
  • Many times I have been on the outside of the crowd.
  • Many times I have been the one who was outcast because I did not fit in.


Confusion erupted as some of the believers, who may have been going to church a long time, were part of the political party that had JESUS killed, namely the Pharisees. “Be circumcised to keep the law of Moses” was their stance because humans could easily see evidence of acceptance. Peter spoke against this prejudiced thinking.

  • GOD wants me to tell people they are accepted.
  • GOD wants me to let people know HE does not discriminate.
  • GOD wants me to inform people that HE purifies the heart by faith.


Accepting people just as they are is important to GOD. HE looked at my sin and while I was in the middle of committing the act, HE died for me to take the blame. JESUS accepted my belief in HIM, knowing I would commit sin, over and over.

It is though grace of our LORD JESUS that we are saved. HE wants people to understand they too are accepted, just as they are. I am grateful to be accepted into the loving family of the FATHER, SON and the HOLY SPIRIT.

  • Are you outcast?
  • Are you seeking to be understood and looking in the places, you know in your heart, that are wrong for you?
  • Will you believe in JESUS and be accepted into HIS loving family so you will never be thrown out again?


Thursday, April 23, 2020

Resistance is Futile


Acts 7: 51 “You stiff-necked and uncircumcised in heart and ears! You always resist the Holy Spirit; as your fathers did, so do you. 52 Which of the prophets did your fathers not persecute? And they killed those who foretold the coming of the Just One, of whom you now have become the betrayers and murderers, 53 who have received the law by the direction of angels and have not kept it.”

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After a hearing all the stories about how great sex was, I wanted to try it. I mean everyone else was doing it. But something inside me was telling me to wait until I was married. “I can’t wait that long” I thought to myself. From what I saw, it didn’t seem to be a big deal even amongst church leaders. I knew something was wrong and did it anyway.

  • There were many times when I knew something was wrong but I did it anyway.
  • There were many times when I justified my actions by looking at what “everyone” else was doing.
  • There were many times when I plead ignorance by not learning about what was right or wrong, yet I knew the difference in my heart.


Stephen finally concludes his message to the church leaders who murdered JESUS. He told them they “always resist the HOLY SPIRIT” as did their ancestors. They knew right from wrong even when they were not told, yet they did what they did anyway.

  • GOD wants me to surrender to the HOLY SPIRIT.
  • GOD wants me to give up my life to the leading of the HOLY SPIRIT.
  • GOD wants me to listen wholeheartedly to the HOLY SPIRIT.


Decision making can be hard, especially when people around me are making bad decisions, wanting me to join in. BUT GOD wants me to stand firm for HIM. HE placed HIS law in my heart when HE created me, so I have no excuse.

GOD made me in a way that is curious and seeking. Unfortunately I can listen to the lust of my flesh or the lust of my eyes or the pride of life to fulfill that curiosity. Soon I find myself in trouble, asking GOD for help out of the trouble I got myself into. BUT GOD is gracious. I am glad HE forgives me and guides me with the HOLY SPIRIT, because HE loves me.

  • Are you ignoring the HOLY SPIRIT by trying to listen to your own pride?
  • Do you argue over something without checking to see what GOD says about it?
  • Will you surrender your thinking and check with GOD about more and more of your decisions each day?


Monday, April 6, 2020

Someone Else


Acts 5: 33 When they heard this, they were furious and plotted to kill them. 34 Then one in the council stood up, a Pharisee named Gamaliel, a teacher of the law held in respect by all the people, and commanded them to put the apostles outside for a little while. 35 And he said to them: “Men of Israel, take heed to yourselves what you intend to do regarding these men. 36 For some time ago Theudas rose up, claiming to be somebody. A number of men, about four hundred, joined him. He was slain, and all who obeyed him were scattered and came to nothing. 37 After this man, Judas of Galilee rose up in the days of the census, and drew away many people after him. He also perished, and all who obeyed him were dispersed. 38 And now I say to you, keep away from these men and let them alone; for if this plan or this work is of men, it will come to nothing; 39 but if it is of God, you cannot overthrow it—lest you even be found to fight against God.”

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After attending the church service, I was highly disappointed. I mean the preacher focused on money as expected and cared less about people, so I went to another church. After that service, I was disappointed. I mean the songs were boring and it seemed so dead, so I went to another church. This time, the pastor preached a great message, but the same woman shouted every week and the service was kind of long.

  • Many times I judged based on unknown criteria.
  • Many times I expected groups of people to behave in a certain way.
  • Many times I have been disappointed with the actions of others because I thought they should be acting better than “I” was acting.


A church leader warns the others not to kill the apostles. He gave sage advice to let them go, warning everyone that if the apostles were following GOD, then they would be picking a fight against GOD that cannot be won.

  • GOD wants me to look at how I am serving HIM.
  • GOD wants me to look only at HIM and not others.
  • GOD wants me to surrender my life to HIM so I can see HIM in more places.


Looking at “someone else” causes problems. When I look at what someone else is doing, I do not have all of the information. I do not have their journey, heartaches, pain and perseverance to get them to where they are. I also do not have the message GOD gave that person in their quiet moments.

I do have my own. I can have a great relationship with the Living GOD, knowing that I have been through a lot that others may never see. The pain, temptations, failures and disappointments I face are healed by GOD daily. I am glad I do not need to look at someone else because I can look to JESUS who sees something good inside of me.

  • Are you looking at someone and are disappointed with their walk with GOD?
  • Do you feel your walk with GOD is better than someone else?
  • Will you stop judging and help people grow by sharing your struggles today so they can have their own relationship with GOD?


Monday, July 1, 2019

Blinded by the rules


John 5: 16 For this reason the Jews persecuted Jesus, and sought to kill Him, because He had done these things on the Sabbath. 17 But Jesus answered them, “My Father has been working until now, and I have been working.”

18 Therefore the Jews sought all the more to kill Him, because He not only broke the Sabbath, but also said that God was His Father, making Himself equal with God. 

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After years of doing whatever I wanted to do, I decided to go back to church. I had enough of “sinning” and I wanted to follow GOD for a change. As I got deeper into reading and attending church, my speech started to change. “Look at THOSE people doing THAT sin.” I mean how dare they sin!

  • There were times when I measured people to ‘my’ standard.
  • There were times when I looked at what people were doing wrong so ‘I’ could correct them.
  • There were times when I felt ‘I’ had arrived because of where ‘I’ had come from.


The church leaders sought to kill JESUS because HE performed a miracle on the Sabbath. JESUS replied with an answer stating HE and HIS FATHER have been working together. This statement grew the rage of the church leaders so they figured they had justification for their legal actions.

  • GOD wants me to follow HIS word, knowing I am still a sinner.
  • GOD wants me to read HIS word, knowing people need grace.
  • GOD wants me to understand HIS heart through observing HIS actions while HE walked the earth.


Over the years I have tried to correct people into salvation from what I can see. If I see the right evidence, then I feel my work is done. BUT GOD says something different. HE wants me to plant HIS seeds and take my eyes off of the person as I give them to HIM.

Strong faith does not require seeing what GOD is doing in “that” person’s life. GOD wants me to recognize what HE is doing in my life so I can drop my complaints, control and conspiring attitude. I recognize I do not follow GOD’s rules, that’s why I need HIM and thank HIM for HIS grace.

  • Do you think you are good at following rules?
  • Are you busy pointing at those who do not follow the rules well?
  • Will you ask GOD to open your blind, rule based eyes and allow HIM to add a measure of grace to your heart today?


Tuesday, October 23, 2018

Doing Over Being


Luke 10: 38 Now it happened as they went that He entered a certain village; and a certain woman named Martha welcomed Him into her house. 39 And she had a sister called Mary, who also sat at Jesus’ feet and heard His word. 40 But Martha was distracted with much serving, and she approached Him and said, “Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Therefore tell her to help me.”

41 And Jesus answered and said to her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things. 42 But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.”

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Upon arrival I immediately went to work. I balanced the books, input all receipts by giver and drew up plans for a new parking lot. When I went home I wondered what the sermon was about. I had missed it because I was too busy to listen.

  • There have been many times when I was extremely busy “doing” church.
  • There have been many times when I thought “the more I serve the closer to GOD I will be.”
  • Three have been many times when I believed that other people were lazy, selfish, ungiving people who needed to get off their butts and simply serve.


Martha wanted her house a certain way, and she was probably extra careful when a special guest was around. JESUS was that special guest and she had to have everything right. BUT HE said something strange to her. Mary, who was sitting at HIS feet worshiping, had chosen the right thing to do.

  • JESUS wants me to stay away from burn out types of service.
  • JESUS wants me to simply worship HIM so I can serve cheerfully.
  • JESUS wants me to slow down so I can hear HIM and when HE fills me up, then I can go back to serving.


There is nothing worse than grumpy service. When I serve people, it is not just the act that counts, it is the heart. GOD wants me to serve with my heart rather than just with action. But sometimes my heart is filled with the wrong things which can taint my service and I get no reward from HIM for my grumpy service.

GOD wants me to ask for a clean heart first so I can serve others the way HE wants mt to. HE wants me to put HIM first, then HE will guide me to serve those who I feel do not deserve being served.

  • Are you serving people in a burned out state?
  • Do you judge others in what they are “not” doing?
  • Can you ask GOD for a heart filled with grace so you can truly desire the best for even your enemies?
  • Will you put “grace” over service today?


Monday, October 8, 2018

Accepted or Rejected


Luke 10: 8 Whatever city you enter, and they receive you, eat such things as are set before you. 9 And heal the sick there, and say to them, ‘The kingdom of God has come near to you.’ 10 But whatever city you enter, and they do not receive you, go out into its streets and say, 11 ‘The very dust of your city which clings to us we wipe off against you. Nevertheless know this, that the kingdom of God has come near you.’ 12 But I say to you that it will be more tolerable in that Day for Sodom than for that city.

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Street witnessing was a scary challenge that I accepted. As I sat in the class and learned an approach, I felt a little more comfortable about the task. “These people need to hear this” was my thought.

When I went out and approached someone in the neighborhood the person said, “Get away from me with that church .” “This is going to be a lot harder than I thought” I said to myself.

  • There were times when I went out to speak about CHRIST with the wrong attitude.
  • There were times when I went out to speak about CHRIST with a chip on my shoulder.
  • There were times when I went out to speak about CHRIST with a “holier than thou” attitude.


JESUS gives HIS final instructions to those HE sent to spread HIS wonderful message. HE let’s them know what to do if they were accepted and more importantly, if they were rejected. HE sent them with a purpose.

  • GOD tells me “When you speak about ME, let MY grace be the center of attention.”
  • GOD says to me “When you go to and speak to people about ME, have true compassion for them.”
  • GOD informs me “Even when you speak humbly about ME, you will be rejected by some.”


“Expect to be rejected just like MY SON was rejected” are the words that one could take away from this passage. But there is more. HE sends me out seeking those who will listen. My attitude for going out needs to be one with compassion and determination.

At the first sign of rejection, I can’t just give up and say “Too bad that person is going to hell.” GOD wants me to view all people around me as a part of “me.” When someone rejects HIS message, it should hurt as much as cutting off a finger. When HE says, “move on” it should feel devastating, yet I must obey. GOD wants me to seek the lost just like HE sought me.

  • What is your attitude towards helping people understand who CHRIST is?
  • Do you think only a select people “deserve” hearing about the Gospel of JESUS?
  • Are you willing to go out and be rejected by some and accepted by others when speaking about GOD’s wonderful grace?



Thursday, July 19, 2018

Acting Removed



Luke5: 27 After these things He went out and saw a tax collector named Levi, sitting at the tax office. And He said to him, “Follow Me.” 28 So he left all, rose up, and followed Him.
29 Then Levi gave Him a great feast in his own house. And there were a great number of tax collectors and others who sat down with them. 30 And their scribes and the Pharisees complained against His disciples, saying, “Why do You eat and drink with tax collectors and sinners?”

31 Jesus answered and said to them, “Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. 32 I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners, to repentance.”

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Jumping in my luxury car, I sped off to my office. Mulling through the projects of the day, I finally organized what I was going to accomplish. I attended numerous meetings, filled out reports and then went home to do this again and again. I never once noticed the people I passed on the street.

  • There were times when work was the focus.
  • There were times when most of my thoughts were on the job.
  • There were times when I placed a large amount of esteem in my career.


The scribes and Pharisees had the “job” of telling people about GOD and they did it with a judgmental attitude. “Why do YOU eat and drink with tax collectors and sinners?” was their question to JESUS. They thought they were so far removed from their sins that they no longer considered themselves sinners.

  • JESUS wants me to seek the lost.
  • JESUS wants me to fill up some of my time for HIM.
  • JESUS wants me to think of HIS kingdom each and every day.


Being far removed from poor, hurt and overtly sinful people doesn’t make me a better follower of GOD. In fact, the more removed I am from the more highly I think of myself. After a while I speak in “those people” terms instead of saying “us people.”

Being busy is also an exclusionary tactic. If I do not purposefully stop and look for the poor, lost and the hurt I can easily forget that I am one of them. JESUS wants me to be part of the crowd that seeks HIM in need of a Savior. I am sick and need GOD daily.

  • Do you think you are better than someone?
  • When is the last time you personally went out and sought after the sick, poor and lost?
  • Can you plan on spending some of your time speaking on behalf of GOD in an inclusive way?



Monday, May 8, 2017

Strange Teaching


Matthew 16: 5 When they went across the lake, the disciples forgot to take bread. 6 “Be careful,” Jesus said to them. “Be on your guard against the yeast of the Pharisees and Sadducees.”

7 They discussed this among themselves and said, “It is because we didn’t bring any bread.”

8 Aware of their discussion, Jesus asked, “You of little faith, why are you talking among yourselves about having no bread? 9 Do you still not understand? Don’t you remember the five loaves for the five thousand, and how many basketfuls you gathered? 10 Or the seven loaves for the four thousand, and how many basketfuls you gathered? 11 How is it you don’t understand that I was not talking to you about bread? But be on your guard against the yeast of the Pharisees and Sadducees.” 12 Then they understood that he was not telling them to guard against the yeast used in bread, but against the teaching of the Pharisees and Sadducees.

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“Maybe people should use a pink envelope” I thought to myself as I dreamt of ways to distinguish the collection for the parking lot. It would require teaching as the collection was already complicated. But this was necessary!

  • There were times I thought of rules for participating in church.
  • There were times I dreamt of ways to “easily” follow the rules.
  • There were times I believed that more rules meant more order.


When I look back on my church tenure I notice a soulless march towards rules and regulations. I mean, I “had” to be in church and I “had” to give and I “had” to sing and I “had” to pray.  There could be no deviations from the schedule, structure, dress or tone in order to fit in. BUT GOD wants me to act different.

  • GOD wants me to follow HIS teachings, not the soulless teachings of man.
  • GOD wants me to test every word that is being said to hear if GOD is in the words rather than man.
  • GOD wants me to teach from HIS word, not from sinful, efficient ideas.


Having needs as a church is not the sin, but sometimes I can focus a little too much on the church building or group and not enough on GOD and HIS flock. I find myself name dropping the church name rather than JESUS’ name. GOD wants me to be part of the church of JESUS which could include every local gathering if they believe.

  • Are you proud of your church?
  • Do you name drop your church name more than JESUS’ name?
  • Can you stop coming up with more church rules and teach GOD’s words of love?


Tuesday, April 7, 2015

The Preference is People


Psalm 30: 8 To you, Lord, I called;
    to the Lord I cried for mercy:
9 “What is gained if I am silenced,
    if I go down to the pit?
Will the dust praise you?
    Will it proclaim your faithfulness?
10 Hear, Lord, and be merciful to me;
    Lord, be my help.”
11 You turned my wailing into dancing;
    you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy,
12 that my heart may sing your praises and not be silent.

    Lord my God, I will praise you forever.

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“Let’s get this over with” was the thought that flashed in my mind as the church announcements droned on and on. “Blah, blah I need this and blah, blah, I need that!” Let’s just get on with the church part so I can get home.

  • Sometimes my attitude makes me blind.
  • Sometimes my thinking gets in the way.
  • Sometimes my demeanor is heartless.


When I went to “church” only thinking of “me” sermons became irritating. In fact, anyone who asked for gifts became irritating. Quite honestly, if anyone corrected me about my approach to church, I found them irritating as well. Soon I wasn’t praising much at all, rather complaining about what was wrong with the church, work and community.

My giving was not sacrificial and my help to others was limited. BUT GOD said do something about this NOW!

  • GOD says to me “I can make the rocks cry out to praise ME, but I prefer you to do it.”
  • GOD says to me “I made all creation, but I have given you free will to praise ME or not.”
  • GOD says to me “Chose this day who you will serve, ME or those who do not serve ME.”


GOD has opened my eyes to the judgment I placed on my giving. I now see that I did this as “protection” for myself rather than being generous to please GOD. I critiqued churches because I wanted to hear what I wanted to hear. I complained about people at work because I didn’t want to point at my own mess. BUT GOD showed HIS mercy and has blessed me instead of punishing me. I can praise HIM forever!

  • Are you shrinking away from helping people?
  • Are you super suspicious of those who are sent to you and are in need?
  • Can you believe you may be serving an angel and are not aware of it?
  • Can you stop complaining at work, church or at home and begin praising GOD?


Friday, May 9, 2014

GOD looks at attitude


1 Kings 11: 4 As Solomon grew old, his wives turned his heart after other gods, and his heart was not fully devoted to the Lord his God, as the heart of David his father had been. 5 He followed Ashtoreth the goddess of the Sidonians, and Molek the detestable god of the Ammonites. 6 So Solomon did evil in the eyes of the Lord; he did not follow the Lord completely, as David his father had done.

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9 The Lord became angry with Solomon because his heart had turned away from the Lord, the God of Israel, who had appeared to him twice. 10 Although he had forbidden Solomon to follow other gods, Solomon did not keep the Lord’s command. 11 So the Lord said to Solomon, “Since this is your attitude and you have not kept my covenant and my decrees, which I commanded you, I will most certainly tear the kingdom away from you and give it to one of your subordinates.

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“Say you’re sorry” were the scolding words of a neighbor’s mother.  I laughed at her kid for multiple reasons. I mean the other kids were laughing, but I was a close neighbor. “Giggle, giggle, I’m sorry” came out of my mouth. The neighbor quickly recognized my attitude of non-remorse and said “I’m going to tell your parents.” “Wait… I’m sorry!” Wow, I didn’t even do anything! This ruined my day, I thought to myself!

Okay, that was a very mild example of doing something with the wrong attitude, but how does this translate into larger things?

·         When I work with a bad attitude, my product comes out poorly.
·         When I serve with a bad attitude, the recipient doesn’t feel served.
·         When I reject what GOD said to do because I simply don’t like the rule, I face GOD’s consequence.

We are all under grace and I am saved from eternal consequence, but that does not give me a license to do what I want. I am GOD’s creation and HE wants me to act like I am. I shouldn’t pout at HIS decree nor should I fret over where HE has me. My attitude should be that of “gratitude.”

·         Are you excited about where GOD has you?
·         Do you think HE is wrong for placing you where you are?

·         Can you accept where you are and grow your gratitude?

Monday, November 18, 2013

Fixing people


Joshua 2:1Then Joshua son of Nun secretly sent two spies from Shittim. “Go, look over the land,” he said, “especially Jericho.” So they went and entered the house of a prostitute named Rahab and stayed there.

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After praying and having a number of discussions I felt pretty good about the progress made with this guy. “He is ready to serve” I assessed. Weeks later I got a phone call stating he had a lapse and was back on drugs. We have to “fix” him, otherwise he can’t serve I thought to myself.

  • When I look at someone else’s sin I can get smug.
  • When I look at people as projects I can get high and mighty.
  • When I look at a person’s contribution to the GOD’s kingdom, I act like I can save them and I have a heaven or a hell to put them in.


When I single out a sin “that” person is doing that I’m not, I can get rather smug in my thinking. I mean, I don’t do “those” things any longer, or I “never” did. “Those people” is a term that assumes I’m not part of that group.  In fact it implies I’m above the group. GOD has something different in mind.

  • GOD sees every person as one of HIS until they reject the SON.
  • GOD can use the most unlikely person to do great things in HIS kingdom and HE wants me to never underestimate HIS choice.
  • GOD wants me to treat every person with high esteem and let HIM assess their sin level and position with HIM.


I can’t tell what a person believes even by their actions. I know I sin and that’s all I should focus on. Talking about other groups of people is very easy. I can point out their flaws and character cracks and I can even doubt they can be used. BUT GOD is the one who cleanses us of ALL unrighteousness!

  • Do you think "that” person is a project?
  • Do you believe “those people” are far away from GOD and “you” are close?
  • Can you stop treating people like projects and give the love?
  • Won’t you drop you assessment of sin and listen to what GOD wants you to do?