Bribery for Offense

Bribery for Offense

Genesis 34: ¹¹ Then Shechem said to her father and her brothers, “Let me find favor in your eyes, and whatever you say to me I will give. ¹² Ask me ever so much dowry and gift, and I will give according to what you say to me; but give me the young woman as a wife.”

 

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Shechem decided to speak up. He thought it would be a good idea to bribe Jacob and Dinah’s brothers by offering a dowry for his violation.

 

My Observations:

• Shechem was probably used to getting what he wanted because the city was named after him.
• Shechem may have thought money would always be the answer for his problems, even the one’s he caused.
• Shechem had no regard for Dinah, Jacob or her brothers and figured a bribe would smooth over his wrong.

 

Thinking money was the solution, Shechem tried to bribe the family into getting his way. He already took what he wanted without considering the consequences. Being rich and powerful, he may have felt he was above the law. BUT GOD saw what he did.

 

In many ways, we think like Shechem. We recklessly break things in life, hoping money will fix the problem. Shechem seemed arrogant enough to approach the family with such an offer. He was raised in rebellion to GOD, much like the other Canaanites. He seemed to live life like anything goes. Little did he know, GOD saw every action.

 

Challenge

• Why does GOD tell Moses about Shechem’s bribery attempt?
• Have you ever messed up and thought money could buy you out of the problem you made?
• Instead of bribery, will you consider confessing to GOD and allow HIM to correct you so HE can place you back on HIS path?

Missed Opportunities

Missed Opportunities

Genesis 34: 5 And Jacob heard that he had defiled Dinah his daughter. Now his sons were with his livestock in the field; so Jacob held his peace until they came. 6 Then Hamor the father of Shechem went out to Jacob to speak with him. 7 And the sons of Jacob came in from the field when they heard it; and the men were grieved and very angry, because he had done a disgraceful thing in Israel by lying with Jacob’s daughter, a thing which ought not to be done. 8 But Hamor spoke with them, saying, “The soul of my son Shechem longs for your daughter. Please give her to him as a wife. 9 And make marriages with us; give your daughters to us, and take our daughters to yourselves. 10 So you shall dwell with us, and the land shall be before you. Dwell and trade in it, and acquire possessions for yourselves in it.”

 

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Jacob heard that Dinah had been violated and kept silent. Hamor heard that his son violated Jacob’s daughter and he heard the demand that his son gave him, wanting to marry Dinah after violating her. Hamor presented an option to act like a Hivite and accept their ways and receive their daughters and possessions.

 

My Observations:

• Jacob missed the opportunity to respond to the outrageous act against his daughter.
• Hamor missed the opportunity to have his son apologize and pay for his egregious action.
• Shechem missed the opportunity of having a loving relationship with Dinah by taking what he wanted.

 

Trying to downplay the violation outraged the sons of Jacob. Jacob never opened his mouth out of fear of retribution. Jacob’s fear, was noticed by his sons, so they did not do anything right away.

 

GOD had sent Jacob back to this land and now his daughter was hurt and so were his sons. What a mess! BUT GOD saw it all. This terrible act would not go unnoticed. Jacob, Hamor and Shechem represent times when we miss opportunities to stand in the gap for someone who has been wronged, or we try to smooth over a wrong, or we do the wrong. GOD sees.

 

Challenge

• Why does GOD tell Moses about Hamor’s offer?
• Have you ever needed someone to stand in the gap for you?
• Will you stand in the gap for someone or not try to smooth a wrong over, or confess to a wrong today?

Blind Desire

Blind Desire

Genesis 34: Now Dinah the daughter of Leah, whom she had borne to Jacob, went out to see the daughters of the land. ² And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her and lay with her, and violated her. ³ His soul was strongly attracted to Dinah the daughter of Jacob, and he loved the young woman and spoke kindly to the young woman. ⁴ So Shechem spoke to his father Hamor, saying, “Get me this young woman as a wife.”

 

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Dinah was trying to accept the move, so she went to meet the Hivite women Isaac and Rebekah despised. Shechem the son of the ruler Hamor and who the city was named after, saw how beautiful Dinah was and violated her. He loved Dinah and spoke kindly to her. He demanded that Hamor get Dinah as his wife.

 

My Observations:

• Shechem saw what he wanted and took what he wanted.
• Shechem may have been in love with Dinah, but had no consideration for her feelings.
• Shechem tried to sweet talk Dinah into wanting to be with him, but that may not have been working, so he demanded his father to force her to be his wife.

 

When the desire to have something that does not belong to a person is there, bad decisions are made. Shechem wanted something and felt he could take it instead of allowing the relationship to blossom naturally. Shechem was dangerous because he could run and tell people who supported his every move, that he wanted what he wanted and that’s the way it is. The town was named “Shechem!”

 

It isn’t just about power. We want what we want and see things from a “me” perspective like Shechem. His desire would cause a lot of people to be hurt because he took what he wanted without a drop of humility. Another mess happened. GOD saw the mess.

 

Challenge

• Why did GOD tell Moses about what Shechem did to Dinah and how he reacted?
• Have you ever wanted something so badly, that all decisions are made from getting that thing?
• Are you willing to ask GOD to change your desire into HIS desire instead of steering HIM into getting your way?