Showing posts with label Restraint. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Restraint. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 30, 2021

All About Service

All About Service

1 Corinthians 7: Now, to the unmarried and to the widows I say that it would be better for you to continue to live alone as I do. But if you cannot restrain your desires, go ahead and marry—it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

 

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“Let’s tryout for track” my friend said. My high school track career was not illustrious, but I went to the meeting anyway. “We will meet to run at 5:30 AM and then we practice in the evening” were the words of dedication I could not follow. I did not join the team and I felt pretty good that I didn’t./

 

  • There have been times when I knew I did not have the dedication to do something.
  • There have been times when I did not have the desire to be what a certain group wanted me to be.
  • There have been times when I chose to place my passions elsewhere.

 

Paul implies that single people can dedicate themselves to the LORD easier than married people. Marriage requires an additional person to think about and the ministry is always affected. His instruction is not about staying single versus getting married. He is simply pointing out to chose the level of service based on self-control. If sexual desire will get in the way of true service, it is better to get married.

 

  • GOD wants me to be dedicated to HIS service.
  • GOD wants me to choose HIS way or no other way.
  • GOD wants me to seek HIS Kingdom first, then HE will guide my desires.

 

It is all about GOD. I mean, all my decisions should be based on my ability to honestly serve the LORD. If I will “burn” with desire, it is better to not be in that ministry the way I am approaching it. I can still serve, but I must do it in a way that will not cause me to fall into sin. I am glad GOD accepts my service when I give it to HIM.

 

  • Are you trying to serve “your way” and find yourself “burning” to do it another way?
  • Do you see your complaints you are placing before the LORD?
  • Will you seek to adjust how you serve and allow GOD to accept you based on your real desires versus trying to force your service into some way you think you should be?

Thursday, January 16, 2020

Glorious Restraint


John 19: So then Pilate took Jesus and scourged Him. And the soldiers twisted a crown of thorns and put it on His head, and they put on Him a purple robe. Then they said, “Hail, King of the Jews!” And they struck Him with their hands.

Pilate then went out again, and said to them, “Behold, I am bringing Him out to you, that you may know that I find no fault in Him.”

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When a child called me a name that was racially motivated, I was astounded. Dressed in a suit and going home from a hard day’s work, I was accosted by a child who was no more than five. I replied, “I do not blame you for your ignorance, I blame your ignorant parents.” I felt better for calling the parent who was standing there, ignorant, in front of many waiting train passengers.

  • It feels good to retaliate.
  • It feels good to get revenge.
  • It feels good to return hatred with more hatred.


Pilate said JESUS was innocent, yet he whipped HIM with barb wire. He then allowed the soldiers to bloody HIS head with a thorny, mock crown. Afterwards, they punched and punched JESUS repeatedly. Then Pilate came forth and again said “I find no fault in HIM.”

  • JESUS wants me to see HE showed tremendous restraint.
  • JESUS wants me to know vengeance is HIS.
  • JESUS wants me to understand, while it is hard to turn the other cheek when slapped, I should try it more and more.


Restraint when filled with rage has always paid off. In fact, releasing what fills me with rage enables me to sleep easier, knowing GOD has this situation handled. HE had all power and used it to show mercy instead of rage. This is a sign of strength. I admire JESUS for HIS glorious restraint.

  • Do you have a temper?
  • Do you get enraged easily?
  • Will you give your rage to JESUS and allow HIM to grow you by giving you restraint today?


Tuesday, April 3, 2018

Dishing It Out


Mark 18: 16 Then the soldiers led Him away into the hall called Praetorium, and they called together the whole garrison. 17 And they clothed Him with purple; and they twisted a crown of thorns, put it on His head, 18 and began to salute Him, “Hail, King of the Jews!” 19 Then they struck Him on the head with a reed and spat on Him; and bowing the knee, they worshiped Him. 20 And when they had mocked Him, they took the purple off Him, put His own clothes on Him, and led Him out to crucify Him.

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“She is a drunk” laughed the students in my class. I joined in on the laughter as I did not like this teacher anyway. She seemed to be very mean and I enjoyed everyone bringing her down a notch.

  • There have been times when I joined in with those who mocked people.
  • There have been times when I felt great being part of the crowd who was ridiculing a person.
  • There have been times when I delighted in talking about a person in a negative way.


JESUS was going to be executed, yet the soldiers took time to stage a fake military leadership gathering in order to mock HIM. The planning took time so that all the soldiers could be there, more than likely standing in their ranks. Hundreds gathered. It must have taken hours as they stood waiting to get their turn to get their jab in. Some thought “Maybe I’ll hit HIM with a stick.”

  • GOD wants me to understand I have the same hatred as any other person.
  • GOD wants me to know that only HE can remove my hatred and replace it with HIS grace.
  • GOD wants me to remember what HE went through in order to rescue me.


JESUS had a beating that was fueled by misguided hatred. That hatred started out as a small ember of dislike, then grew into a raging fire of hatred. GOD wants me to realize that I may not like everyone, but I need to love everyone, just as HE does.

  • Is there someone in your life who just rubs you the wrong way?
  • Are you letting that person transform you into a cold bitter person?
  • Can you examine your heart and ask GOD to transform it into HIS heart of compassion?

Thursday, June 11, 2015

Time Machines Do Not Exist

Psalm 76:It is you alone who are to be feared.
    Who can stand before you when you are angry?
From heaven you pronounced judgment,
    and the land feared and was quiet—
when you, God, rose up to judge,
    to save all the afflicted of the land.
10 Surely your wrath against mankind brings you praise,
    and the survivors of your wrath are restrained.

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“You know what’s really disappointing, I trusted you” were the words that turned me around. After losing the trust of my supervisor I felt miserable. Now I was being watched carefully on a job that I hated anyway. What hurt the most is I had trust placed in me, lost it and could never gain it back.

  • Sometimes I blow it with people and I cannot gain their trust back.
  • Sometimes I make permanent mistakes with people and I cannot win them over.
  • Sometimes I burn bridges with people and they cannot be rebuilt.


It seemed like GOD was angry at my slothful ways. I was definitely on the wrong path and this incident with my supervisor proved it. I had to wake up and place my fear back in GOD rather than fearing a shrinking bank account. I had to get restraint.

  • GOD allows me to be as wild as I want to be, but HE would rather have me fear HIS ways.
  • GOD allows me to not follow HIM, but HE would rather that I fear HIS wrath.
  • GOD allows me to get angry at HIM, shake my fist at HIM and threaten to move away from HIM, but HE would rather have a peaceful loving relationship with me that has power.


I do not have a time machine to go back and fix all the ills I have created in life. GOD allowed me to feel HIS wrath in a very small way many times. BUT GOD is the ultimate forgiver. HE chastens me rather than destroying me. HE adds restraint to my ways that tend to run away from HIM and HE holds on tight. I can now praise HIM for holding onto me instead of letting me run further away from HIM.

  • Are you looking back at past mistakes?
  • Do you think reviewing the past will help you right now?
  • Can you let go of the past and hold onto GOD?
  • Will you stop looking into the future and look at the here and now?
  • Will you fear and praise GOD today?