Family Ties

Family Ties

Genesis 35: ⁸ Now Deborah, Rebekah’s nurse, died, and she was buried below Bethel under the terebinth tree. So the name of it was called Allon Bachuth.

 

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Deborah, Rebekah’s nurse died. She was buried in Bethel and the name of the place meant weeping tree.

 

My Observations:

• Rebekah’s death was not recorded so she may be dead during the time of Jacob’s journey.
• Deborah may have travelled with Jacob, because she was asl close to family as Jacob could get.
• Jacob was close to Rebekah and may not have gotten the chance to see her before she died.

 

This verse sticks out because it seems to come out of nowhere. Deborah had not been mentioned until now. She was Rebekah’s nurse and probably assisted in the birth of Jacob and Esau. She may have helped raise Jacob and was probably close to him.

 

Rebekah’s death was not mentioned, but Deborah’s death was listed. There must be some great significance to Deborah relating to Jacob. The journey to Bethel may have been filled with Jacob asking questions to Deborah. She was older and the trip was difficult. GOD gave Jacob time with Deborah.

 

Challenge

• Why does GOD mention Deborah to Moses, seemingly, out of the blue?
• Have you faced the loss of a loved one?
• Do you know your weeping may endure for a night over someone who passes, but joy comes in the morning?

Terrified

Terrified

Genesis 35: ⁵ And they journeyed, and the terror of God was upon the cities that were all around them, and they did not pursue the sons of Jacob. ⁶ So Jacob came to Luz (that is, Bethel), which is in the land of Canaan, he and all the people who were with him. ⁷ And he built an altar there and called the place El Bethel, because there God appeared to him when he fled from the face of his brother.

 

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Jacob was terrified that the cities around them would hear about what happened to the people of Shechem. Simeon and Levi murdered all the men of Shechem in revenge to what was done to Dinah. BUT GOD intervened.

 

My Observations:

• The surrounding cities may have remembered what happened to Sodom and Gomorrah.
• Terror of GOD fell upon the surrounding cities because Jacob was known to have a relationship with HIM.
• Jacob was full of terror and so were the surrounding cities.

 

Everyone was terrified in this, seemingly, impossible situation. No one had a good solution for moving forward in life. If the surrounding cities tried to retaliate, they might face GOD’s wrath. If Jacob caused any more problems, they could be wiped out.

 

Jacob previously made a promise to the LORD that he had not kept. He promised to offer ten percent of all he had to the LORD. Up to this point, he may not have kept this promise. Now he was terrified. After twenty plus years of making the promise to the LORD, he built an altar.

 

Challenge

• Why does GOD describe everyone’s terror to Moses?
• Have you ever been scared of the future?
• Is there a promise you made to the LORD that needs to be fulfilled?

Preparing for Change

Preparing for Change

Genesis 35: ² And Jacob said to his household and to all who were with him, “Put away the foreign gods that are among you, purify yourselves, and change your garments. ³ Then let us arise and go up to Bethel; and I will make an altar there to God, who answered me in the day of my distress and has been with me in the way which I have gone.” ⁴ So they gave Jacob all the foreign gods which were in their hands, and the earrings which were in their ears; and Jacob hid them under the terebinth tree which was by Shechem.

 

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Jacob was told to go to Bethel, the place where GOD showed him a great ladder where angels were descending and ascending. Over the years, Jacob picked up many people as servants, who had varying beliefs. He told everyone, including Rachel, to get rid of the foreign gods.

 

My Observations:

• Jacob had finally placed all of his trust in the LORD.
• Jacob saw the power of GOD’s protection in the past and did not want to do anything to upset the balance.
• Jacob finally saw value in purifying, getting rid of foreign gods and cleaning up to see GOD.

 

As if to say “You can’t just show up any old way,” Jacob told everyone to prepare to meet GOD. He did not want a single person to show any kind of opposition to GOD. He had been in distress before and was facing a larger problem.

 

He ran from one person before. He ran from Esau and ran from Laban, but this time he could not run from a reputation of being a murderer and a thief of an entire city. This label would need GOD’s intervention. He prepared his group to be as reverent, outwardly, as possible.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think GOD told Moses about Jacob’s instructions to his entire household?
• What preparation have you done to turn to GOD?
• Is this a time that you should purify yourself to hear GOD’s pending instructions for your next steps?

 

Here We Go Again

Here We Go Again

Genesis 35:1 Then God said to Jacob, “Arise, go up to Bethel and dwell there; and make an altar there to God, who appeared to you when you fled from the face of Esau your brother.”

 

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Simeon and Levi, Jacob’s sons, had just caused a mess. They killed all the men of Shechem and took their wives, children and possessions. Jacob feared for everyone’s life in his camp. With no plan, GOD appeared to him.

 

My Observations:

• Jacob was in a situation where he had to run for his life again.
• Jacob caused the mess he had between him and Esau, and found himself in the same situation caused by his sons.
• GOD had to tell Jacob to go back to the same place where he fled from Esau.

 

Fleeing, probably was not Jacob’s plan. He was told by GOD to return to Isaac’s and Rebekah’s land and may have thought he would settle there. Now he feared that his sons had upset very powerful groups from all over.

 

Bethel, also called Luz, was the place where GOD showed Jacob the supernatural ladder. Angels descended and ascended the ladder and Jacob promised he would offer the LORD ten percent of all he had. GOD sent Jacob back to this place and commanded him to build the altar he promised.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think GOD told Moses about HIS command to Jacob to leave and build an altar?
• Are you in a situation that seems very messed up?
• Do you have faith in GOD to handle all your difficult situations, even the one you are in right now?

Situational Gravity Explained

Situational Gravity Explained

Genesis 34³⁰ Then Jacob said to Simeon and Levi, “You have troubled me by making me obnoxious among the inhabitants of the land, among the Canaanites and the Perizzites; and since I am few in number, they will gather themselves together against me and kill me. I shall be destroyed, my household and I.”

 

³¹ But they said, “Should he treat our sister like a harlot?”

 

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After Simeon and Levi took revenge on the entire city of Shechem, Jacob spoke to them trying to tell them what they had done was very serious. Their response was an attempt to explain why they did this extreme act.

 

My Observations:

• Jacob expressed his fear of retribution from the surrounding people.
• Simeon and Levi expressed to Jacob that something should have been done to serve justice on the city of Shechem.
• Israel’s reputation of being obnoxious had begun.

 

Shechem’s violation started a series of events that escalated out of control quickly. Throughout history, groups of raiders would take women for their own pleasures. Up until this point, Jacob’s family had remained safe. But now the safety net felt removed.

 

Jacob knew eventually the people of the surrounding lands would get word of what happened. The immense wealth that was stolen by his son’s would possibly bring people from far away who would desire to raid his camp without remorse. Simeon and Levi felt better, but their justice would be short lived. GOD saw it all.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think GOD told Moses about Jacob’s conversation with Simeon and Levi?
• Have you ever taken revenge and gotten into a worse situation?
• If vengeance is driving you to a situation that is worse, will you seek GOD to intervene HIS way?

And So It Begins

And So It Begins

Genesis 34: ²⁵ Now it came to pass on the third day, when they were in pain, that two of the sons of Jacob, Simeon and Levi, Dinah’s brothers, each took his sword and came boldly upon the city and killed all the males. ²⁶ And they killed Hamor and Shechem his son with the edge of the sword, and took Dinah from Shechem’s house, and went out. ²⁷ The sons of Jacob came upon the slain, and plundered the city, because their sister had been defiled. ²⁸ They took their sheep, their oxen, and their donkeys, what was in the city and what was in the field, ²⁹ and all their wealth. All their little ones and their wives they took captive; and they plundered even all that was in the houses.

 

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Waiting for the pain to reach its peak, Simeon and Levi went out to kill all the men of Shechem, including Hamor and Shechem. They took all the women and children and possessions for themselves. The plan for revenge had worked. Or so they thought.

 

My Observations:

• Not all of the sons of Jacob agreed to kill the men of Shechem.
• Simeon and Levi were the most offended by the violation of Dinah.
• Jacob was renamed to Israel by GOD, and this act of violence was the beginning of trouble for Israel.

 

Up until this point, the family chosen by GOD had no enemies. Even Laban was told by GOD to leave Jacob alone. But now Simeon and Levi caused a huge mess. They killed out of revenge. You and I may feel the same way as Simeon and Levi, wanting revenge. But unfortunately, the long-term relationships with surrounding people would prove to be extremely difficult.

 

Simeon and Levi could not leave it alone. This act of violation was extremely difficult, but their form of justice would bring on problems for Israel that may be going on to this very day. GOD saw the revenge that HE should have owned.

 

Challenge

• Why did GOD tell Moses about the revenge of Simeon and Levi?
• Have you ever wanted revenge?
• Can you allow GOD to own revenge so HE will take care of the situation HIS way and in HIS time?

Opportunity Blindness

Opportunity Blindness

Genesis 34: ²⁰ And Hamor and Shechem his son came to the gate of their city, and spoke with the men of their city, saying: ²¹ “These men are at peace with us. Therefore let them dwell in the land and trade in it. For indeed the land is large enough for them. Let us take their daughters to us as wives, and let us give them our daughters. ²² Only on this condition will the men consent to dwell with us, to be one people: if every male among us is circumcised as they are circumcised. ²³ Will not their livestock, their property, and every animal of theirs be ours? Only let us consent to them, and they will dwell with us.” ²⁴ And all who went out of the gate of his city heeded Hamor and Shechem his son; every male was circumcised, all who went out of the gate of his city.

 

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Hamor and Shechem got so excited about the possibility of becoming even more wealthy than they were, that they told all the men about it. They persuaded the men to become circumcised as part of the peace treaty.

 

My Observations:

• Hamor and Shechem were fooled by the sons of Jacob into thinking they were at peace with what was done to Dinah.
• Hamor and Shechem seemed to dream of getting even more wealthy and powerful.
• Hamor and Shechem were plotting to take all of Jacob’s wealth, but they had to consent to being circumcised.

 

Blinded by the possibility of becoming wealthier, the men of Shechem started to drop their guards regarding Jacob and his vast group. Their worries turned into dreams of marrying his daughters and acquiring his wealth. They voluntarily became circumcised, probably thinking this would make them one of Jacob’s groups.

 

Little did they know, the sons of Jacob had deceived them. The sons of Jacob were planning revenge and put on a great act. Sometimes we too can fall into blindness over becoming wealthy. Like Shechem, blindness of wealth and fame can give false security to us. BUT GOD saw the plot Hamor and Shechem were planning.

 

Challenge

• Why do you think GOD told Moses about Hamor and Shechem’s plot?
• Have you ever wanted wealth so badly, that you lowered your standards to get it?
• Will you ask GOD to open your eyes to any blindness so HE can guide you to HIS better path?

Revenge Put in Motion

Revenge Put in Motion

Genesis 34: ¹³ But the sons of Jacob answered Shechem and Hamor his father, and spoke deceitfully, because he had defiled Dinah their sister. ¹⁴ And they said to them, “We cannot do this thing, to give our sister to one who is uncircumcised, for that would be a reproach to us. ¹⁵ But on this condition we will consent to you: If you will become as we are, if every male of you is circumcised, ¹⁶ then we will give our daughters to you, and we will take your daughters to us; and we will dwell with you, and we will become one people. ¹⁷ But if you will not heed us and be circumcised, then we will take our daughter and be gone.”

 

¹⁸ And their words pleased Hamor and Shechem, Hamor’s son. ¹⁹ So the young man did not delay to do the thing, because he delighted in Jacob’s daughter. He was more honorable than all the household of his father.

 

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Hearing about the violation of Dinah, her brothers decided to do something about it. They deceived Shechem and Hamor by telling them they needed to become circumcised. This way the men of Shechem would become like the men of Israel, Jacob’s sons.

 

My Observations:

• Jacob’s sons were furious enough to plan out revenge.
• Jacob’s household followed the covenant given to Abraham, that all males born or servants who worked for the family, would be circumcised.
• Shechem was first in line, probably dreaming of having Dinah as his wife.

 

GOD told Abraham to be circumcised when he was ninety-nine. HE also said that males had to be circumcised on the eighth day, or when the child is eight days old. Jacob and his entire family followed this covenant. Jacob’s son’s knew this process would be painful for adults, so they added it to their plan.

 

Shechem, blinded by getting his way, fell into the trap created by Jacob’s sons. He was so used to getting his way that this plan looked like he had won over Jacob and his family. He thought that the men of Shechem would be excited about being able to marry the daughters of Jacob, so he got first in line. GOD saw the plan for revenge put in place.

 

Challenge

• Why does GOD tell Moses about the plan for revenge put in place by Jacob’s sons?
• Have you ever thought about taking revenge on someone?
• Can you let go of any ill will you may have against someone and allow GOD to own vengeance?